I think it is a bit of both. Before you all jump in feet first I think you need to have a long honest discussion about it. Talk about your wants, likes, desires, and boundaries. The best way to find
Lynn: First, I want to express my sympathy. Cheating is not okay and I'm sorry it has happened to you. Also, I'm very pleased to hear that your therapist mentioned polyamory. Not many of them do.
Sounds to me that your boyfriend is bi or bicurious and you are handling it perfectly. Bi males still suffer from the stigma that is attached to bi guys whereas female bisexuality is widely accepted.
I understand how sketchy it can feel in certain situations. Regardless of the sexuality of all involved there is a gold standard that you have to stick by and that is SET GROUND RULES. Everyone needs
The answer is simple! Go with your gut! It is a pretty good time overall. As for co-worker vs new friends, I can't answer that for you. The only thing I can say is be prepared for gossip if you go