Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim (In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful) Assalmalaikum Dear Brother/Sister, It is the best time to get rid of this habit. AbuDawud Book 009, Hadith Number
Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim (In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful) Assalmalaikum Dear Brother, This confusion is not new. I too questioned to myself in the same way. Quran [22
Miss Kitty- God doesn't want you or anyone to suffer. God Himself suffered when they killed His son. And God suffered when His people (Israelites) made bad decisions. As far as God making everything
Miss Kitty- Two suggestions. First, go live in the dorm! It's not too late. The college isn't going to put you in a Freshman dorm, so you will likely be with students your age. It's never too late
One thing that came to mind when I was thinking about your question, is that a good church is often a good place to find friends/a boyfriend. You hopefully find quality people there, with good values

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