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Sean, All relationships are different. What works for you and your partner is what works. What you're describing is what's called "scene-specific behavior." That is, someone wants to be/do "X"
Hot sauce won't injure him permanently but it is quite severe. As long as he does not swallow feces he will be fine, swallowing urine will not harm him as it is basically inert and sterile. Use sterile
Sir, First off how is it getting tougher? I am not sure I understand what your needing? Is it that things are not changing so you have to find new things? Or maybe you are dealing with new issues and
have you told your husband? Does he know about the lifestyle? First you need to be honest with both men. Then you need to look at something else, it is possible to love two people. Is the Dom ever
You are already a bit in the extreme and if you keep up the way you are going, he will learn to endure more than you can give. I'd suggest you visit some toy sites for ideas and devices such as www.extremerestraints

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