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Stephen PythonU.S.
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I can answer questions for those new to BDSM, what it means and doesn't mean, and how the conflicting emotions can be dealt with. Questions especially directed at those who want a Dom perspective are welcomed, whether from a Dom or a sub. | |
ziggy zieglerU.S.
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I am available to answer questions pertaining to the Master slave dynamic. The slaves journey into submission, mentorship, service,leather lifestyle, household management, and training | |
Robert RubelU.S.
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Master/slave theory and practice, using protocols to make your world special, communication glitches within the M/s framework, serious problem solving in an M/s relationship, fire play. | |
CougarDommeU.S.
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I can answer any question about BDSM in practice, theory or relationships | |
Oscar G.U.S.
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From simple curiosity to elaborate scene set up and planning as well as technique, gear, link, advice, opinion, facts and reference among other colleagues. Social, spiritual, romantic and emotional issues related to BDSM Bondage being my focus and specialty, but love the sensual aspects of these arts. | |
Eirene NayarU.S.
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I can answer questions about how to know if this lifestyle is right for you. How to be the best slave you can be. How to know if a Master or Mistress is right for you. Dealing with the emotional pain of a breakup in the D/s relationship. What questions to ask a potential owner. What it means to accept a collar. How to request release from a collar. Learning to trust. | |
Lady AryanaU.S.
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Fem Dom relationships, Male Dom/fem slave, Master/slave relationships M/f, F/f, Long Distance relationships, Leather community, Old Guard, Victorn Lifestyle, BDSM play, Community support, Full time slavery and submission *living together, and how to adjust, protocols, and so forth. Email groups for help with finding others in your area. HOH or DD relationships. I was collared to my Master, then we married Sept 25 2003. I am no longer in a relationship with him, although as D/s has always been a part of me I am still active in looking for a relationship either DD or D/s, or simply learning more ..... | |
John BordenU.S.
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I am available to answer any of your BDSM Fetish questions. Are you interested in the fetish lifestyle? Bondage, Domination, S & M. Whether you are submissive, dominant, or switch. I can answer questions relating to the BDSM and fetish lifestyle in general, as well as safe fetish sex, and BDSM entertainment (e.g., the best BDSM websites and adult content). Watch Free & Premium Live Fetish Webcams @ www.FETISHWEBCAMS.net Best Fetish Phone Sex Numbers 1-888-396-5465 (KINK), 1-888-324-2376 (BDSM) or www.KINKYPHONESEX.net | |
slave jackU.K.
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how to be a good slave how to be truely owned by your owner how to lose your dignity how to satisfy your owner how to be truely humiliated extreme degradation and abuse bdsm slavery is a one-way street bdsm slavery is forever 24-7 true lifestyle | |
meganU.S.
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I am a transsexual submissive collard to a transsexual mistress. I am available to answer your bdsm questions regarding transsexuals, crossdressing, and sissy, etc. I have experience in various aspects of both online and offline relationships. | |
Master ShadowU.S.
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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle. | |
awhitecloudU.S.
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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 15 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. | |
Mistress VioletteU.S.
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I can answer questions related to the practice of BDSM, especially involving relationship issues and personal interactions. My expertise is in helping people sort out thoughts and feelings, define problems and find solutions. I'm happy to apply my BDSM knowledge and experience to this. I'm not the best person for questions dealing with mechanical contraptions, the physics of BDSM or Gor related matters. |
You should really be using sterile hypodermic needles that come in SIZES that increase pain rather than what you are using because the medical grade needles are designed to minimize tissue damage and nerve
I would say to set up your rules, how and when you wish her to do things for you. Work with her on the proper way to be talked to so that you know and can work on making it happen that way. The more
not sure what to tell you, and as to her calling you Master...well subs use that term as well. This is something you need to talk about before hand...and you can be on line studying up on what a good
Hmmm Please correct me if I'm wrong, but this sounds as though she wants to do Master/slave roleplay in the bedroom only, at this point. Nothing wrong with that. It can ease her into the role. It's
well I would go out with him and then deal with the issues directly. Giving it a try might be the only answer. Write out the fears and be open and honest with him as well about them. Yes it is not his
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