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Lady AryanaU.S.
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Fem Dom relationships, Male Dom/fem slave, Master/slave relationships M/f, F/f, Long Distance relationships, Leather community, Old Guard, Victorn Lifestyle, BDSM play, Community support, Full time slavery and submission *living together, and how to adjust, protocols, and so forth. Email groups for help with finding others in your area. HOH or DD relationships. I was collared to my Master, then we married Sept 25 2003. I am no longer in a relationship with him, although as D/s has always been a part of me I am still active in looking for a relationship either DD or D/s, or simply learning more in order to help others. | |
Oscar G.U.S.
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From simple curiosity to elaborate scene set up and planning as well as technique, gear, link, advice, opinion, facts and reference among other colleagues. Social, spiritual, romantic and emotional issues related to BDSM Bondage being my focus and specialty, but love the sensual aspects of these arts. | |
John BordenU.S.
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I am available to answer any of your BDSM Fetish questions. Are you interested in the fetish lifestyle? Bondage, Domination, S & M. Whether you are submissive, dominant, or switch. I can answer questions relating to the BDSM and fetish lifestyle in general, as well as safe fetish sex, and BDSM entertainment (e.g., the best BDSM websites and adult content).
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awhitecloudU.S.
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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 15 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. | |
slave jackU.K.
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I can answer any question about extreme humiliation and degradation lifestyle , how to be a real slave , how to really surrender all aspects of your life to your owner , how to completely lose your dignity and celebrate the "freedom of true slavery". I am a masochist object of my owner, LADY SHARON , an EXTREME lesbian SADIST with vast experience in BDSM , in a true 24/7 TPE lifestyle. specialities: caning , whipping , anal torture , anal dilation , anal fisting , double penetration , cbt , ball busting , medical scenes , needle play , cutting , breath control , golden Roman and brown showers, pain , scat play. | |
Robert RubelU.S.
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Master/slave theory and practice, using protocols to make your world special, communication glitches within the M/s framework, serious problem solving in an M/s relationship, fire play. | |
Stephen PythonU.S.
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I can answer questions for those new to BDSM, what it means and doesn't mean, and how the conflicting emotions can be dealt with. Questions especially directed at those who want a Dom perspective are welcomed, whether from a Dom or a sub. | |
ziggy zieglerU.S.
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I am available to answer questions pertaining to the Master slave dynamic. The slaves journey into submission, mentorship, service,leather lifestyle, household management, and training | |
Master NanuckBelgium
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I will answer any questions concern the lifestyle but am more Pharoanic than Gorean bent. I am no good in 1:1 vanilla relationships so do not ask. | |
meganU.S.
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I am a transsexual submissive collard to a transsexual mistress. I am available to answer your bdsm questions regarding transsexuals, crossdressing, and sissy, etc. I have experience in various aspects of both online and offline relationships. | |
CougarDommeU.S.
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I can answer any question about BDSM in practice, theory or relationships | |
Master ShadowU.S.
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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle. | |
Mistress VioletteU.S.
On Vacation
returns 11/23/2009 |
I can answer questions related to the practice of BDSM, especially involving relationship issues and personal interactions. My expertise is in helping people sort out thoughts and feelings, define problems and find solutions. I'm happy to apply my BDSM knowledge and experience to this. I'm not the best person for questions dealing with mechanical contraptions, the physics of BDSM or Gor related matters. | |
Eirene NayarU.S.
On Vacation
returns 11/21/2009 |
I can answer questions about how to know if this lifestyle is right for you. How to be the best slave you can be. How to know if a Master or Mistress is right for you. Dealing with the emotional pain of a breakup in the D/s relationship. What questions to ask a potential owner. What it means to accept a collar. How to request release from a collar. Learning to trust. |
Sean, All relationships are different. What works for you and your partner is what works. What you're describing is what's called "scene-specific behavior." That is, someone wants to be/do "X"
Hot sauce won't injure him permanently but it is quite severe. As long as he does not swallow feces he will be fine, swallowing urine will not harm him as it is basically inert and sterile. Use sterile
Sir, First off how is it getting tougher? I am not sure I understand what your needing? Is it that things are not changing so you have to find new things? Or maybe you are dealing with new issues and
have you told your husband? Does he know about the lifestyle? First you need to be honest with both men. Then you need to look at something else, it is possible to love two people. Is the Dom ever
You are already a bit in the extreme and if you keep up the way you are going, he will learn to endure more than you can give. I'd suggest you visit some toy sites for ideas and devices such as www.extremerestraints
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