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Ben Martin

U.S.
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Questions related to power-based relationships in which decision-making authority is intentionally and consensually transferred -- and the resulting imbalance celebrated. I am able to assist those trying to understand where they fit in, and those seeking to structure and thrive in a power based relationships. Specific topics I am able to discuss include: setting and achieving personal and relationship goals, responsible Mastery, the use of protocols and rituals, communication techniques, and conflict resolution. In addition, I am knowledgable and experienced in polyamory, long-distance relationships, bisexuality and a variety of kinky activities ranging from mind games to sadistic play.

Robert Rubel (Dr. Bob)

U.S.
Available
Anything related to BDSM or Master/slave relationships or activities.

Khaos

U.S.
Available
I can answer questions about techniques in BDSM, especially about bondage. I also have plenty of experience in the psychological aspects of it, dominance, mind control techniques, and erotic hypnosis.

BrianR

U.S.
Available
I will answer questions related to long term Master/slave relationships.

Aramock Nanuck

Canada
Available
I will answer any questions concern the lifestyle and may annoy a few because I do dive into the history and psychology of this lifestyle in many of my answers. I have a partner a Femdom Mistress who shares my experiences and assets, as I hers. Also belonging to a couple groups in Europa and Asia. Traveling frequently between the continents. We tend to share information and discuss many of the topics frequently. I will focus on the core items around, training and relationship management for those that are interested.

Natali Noir

U.S.
Available
I can answer questions related to Mistresses/Dommes and their relationships with subs and slaves. I can answer questions about different fetishes, give advice, explain BDSM and dungeon etiquette or just explain overall BDSM practices and protocols as I've learned. I can also help with creative ideas related to kinky scenes, role-plays, punishments, or rewards.

ziggy ziegler

U.S.
Available
I am available to answer questions pertaining to the Master slave dynamic. The slaves journey into submission, mentorship, service,leather lifestyle, household management, and training. My life's focus is assisting individuals to realized their fullest potential through self awareness.

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2017-03-08 New & could use some ideas:

Hi Just,    Welcome to the wonderful world of chastity play. I've found that a website called Chastity Mansion helped me when I first started years ago.    If you're looking for ideas for LDR play there

2017-03-06 Transition to submission:

You're not the only person to struggle with this question -- not because there are many "failing" in a D/s relationship, but because they aren't giving voice to their needs or are trying to live a fantastical

2017-02-17 masochist male:

Are you a member of Fetlife.com?  If not, that would be a start. In the search field, put in the name of your city. I did that, and have found pages and pages of members. It should not be too difficult

2017-02-16 bdsm torture:

Hello there,  Torture can be defined as many things such as mental, emotional, etc. But since you only mentioned pain, I'll assume you mean physical only.    In regards to that I would suggest that any

2017-02-12 suggestions:

Don't do caning.    Haha, that's semi-serious. Caning is meant to hurt and remind you of the literal position you put yourself in. At best I can suggest to take a painkiller before play to decrease discomfort

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