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XR

U.S.
Available
  • Knowledgeability 9.89
  • Clarity of Response 10.00
  • Politeness 10.00
  • Response Time(hr) 55.1
  •  --Last 90 Days(hr) 25.4
  • Total Questions 97
 If it involves gear I can answer it. Whether you're talking basic sex toys, restraints(leather, steel, etc....), electrosex, fucking machines, butt plugs, or any other kinky practice that involves gear. I can answer it.

CC

U.S.
Available
  • Knowledgeability 9.00
  • Clarity of Response 9.50
  • Politeness 9.75
  • Response Time(hr) 61.9
  •  --Last 90 Days(hr) 169.7
  • Total Questions 9
 BDSM lifestyle related is my primary interest and experience I am willing to volunteer for.

Sir Jim Bliss

U.S.
Available
  • Knowledgeability 10.00
  • Clarity of Response 9.80
  • Politeness 10.00
  • Response Time(hr) 91.5
  •  --Last 90 Days(hr) 154.6
  • Total Questions 14
 Expertise: Interpersonal communication and relationships; agreement building, conflict resolution, Master/slave theory and practice, Hypnosis, Spiritual living, RBD rough body play; FEAR play and Weapons play. I invite any questions related to: -relationship issues, communication problems, how to make agreements clear, how to explore emotions, spirituality and the lifestyle, any questions about hypnosis, NeuroLinguistic Programming (NLP) and "The Ennegram" -Questions related to many forms of play with a variety of 'tools' including but not limited to: Walking Canes, Canes, Floggers, Rough Body Play (RBD), chokes and choke holds, bruising, blunt intruments, etc..

Master Shadow

U.S.
Available
  • Knowledgeability 9.87
  • Clarity of Response 9.91
  • Politeness 9.98
  • Response Time(hr) 100.6
  •  --Last 90 Days(hr) 101.5
  • Total Questions 351
 Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

Master Nanuck

Germany
Available
  • Knowledgeability 9.91
  • Clarity of Response 9.76
  • Politeness 9.87
  • Response Time(hr) 29.8
  •  --Last 90 Days(hr) 7.8
  • Total Questions 308
 I will answer any questions concern the lifestyle but I am more Pharoanic than Gorean bent. I may annoy a few because I do dive into the history and psychology of this lifestyle in many of my answers. I have a partner a Femdom Mistress who shares my experiences and assets, as I hers. Also belonging to a couple groups in Europa, we tend to share information and discuss many of the topics frequently. I will focus on the core items around, training and relationship management for those that are interested.

Ben Martin

U.S.
Available
  • Knowledgeability N/A
  • Clarity of Response N/A
  • Politeness N/A
  • Response Time(hr) 8.3
  •  --Last 90 Days(hr) 8.3
  • Total Questions 1
 Questions related to power-based relationships in which decision-making authority is intentionally and consensually transferred -- and the resulting imbalance celebrated. I am able to assist those trying to understand where they fit in, and those seeking to structure and thrive in a power based relationships. Specific topics I am able to discuss include: setting and achieving personal and relationship goals, responsible Mastery, the use of protocols and rituals, communication techniques, and conflict resolution. In addition, I am knowledgable and experienced in polyamory, long-distance relationships, bisexuality and a variety of kinky activities ranging from mind games to sadistic play.

awhitecloud

U.S.
Available
  • Knowledgeability 9.71
  • Clarity of Response 9.84
  • Politeness 9.95
  • Response Time(hr) 95.3
  •  --Last 90 Days(hr) 94.5
  • Total Questions 398
 Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

extremeslave jack (577-573-966)

U.K.
Available
  • Knowledgeability 9.90
  • Clarity of Response 9.79
  • Politeness 9.95
  • Response Time(hr) 41.7
  •  --Last 90 Days(hr) 11.8
  • Total Questions 183
 I can answer questions about the EXTREME humiliation and degradation lifestyle : How to be a true BDSM slave , how to surrender ALL aspects of your life to your owner , how to completely lose your dignity and celebrate the "freedom of true slavery". I am the worthless,masochist object of my owner, The respected LADY SHARON , a great lesbian SADIST with vast experience in extreme BDSM , in a 24/7 TPE lifestyle with no limit or safe words. I have been officially and permanently owned by The respected LADY SHARON since January,1,2000. My number in the slave register is (577-573-966). Specialities: Extreme emotional, psychological and physical humiliation. Extreme pain. Extreme anal dilation,fisting and torture. Extreme cbt & ball busting. Extreme medical scenes, needle play, cutting & suturing. Extreme edge play and near-death control. Roman, golden and brown showers. For total privacy, you can E-MAIL ME DIRECTLY to: extremeslavejacknew@yahoo.com

Robert Rubel

U.S.
Available
  • Knowledgeability 9.96
  • Clarity of Response 9.89
  • Politeness 10.00
  • Response Time(hr) 28.3
  •  --Last 90 Days(hr) 18.9
  • Total Questions 204
 Master/slave theory and practice, using protocols to make your world special, communication glitches within the M/s framework, serious problem solving in an M/s relationship, fire play.

Madame Rax

U.S.
Available
  • Knowledgeability 10.00
  • Clarity of Response 10.00
  • Politeness 10.00
  • Response Time(hr) 58.0
  •  --Last 90 Days(hr) 58.0
  • Total Questions 6
 I am open and willing to answer any questions involving BDSM that do not specifically concern illegal acts involving children or non-consensual assault against an unwilling party.

Miss-L

U.S.
Available
  • Knowledgeability 9.75
  • Clarity of Response 9.90
  • Politeness 10.00
  • Response Time(hr) 60.5
  •  --Last 90 Days(hr) 114.7
  • Total Questions 51
 I can answer questions related to Mistresses/Dommes and their relationships with subs and slaves. I can answer questions about different fetishes, give advice, or just explain overall BDSM practices and protocols.

Phoenix Master

U.S.
Available
  • Knowledgeability 9.82
  • Clarity of Response 9.70
  • Politeness 9.94
  • Response Time(hr) 34.0
  •  --Last 90 Days(hr) 40.4
  • Total Questions 87
 My experience is in the D/s,BDSM lifestyle, I have been a member of several support groups both in person and online. I can also answer questions on basic psychology of people in the lifestyle.

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2012-02-03 Daddy/little girl relationship:

Greetings Kai,    I have worked in the mental health system for well over ten years plus. I can’t say for sure if your daughter would be safe, simply the one thing that is standing out in my mind is that

2012-01-31 Need to learn fast:

\Pleasure    The best online resources are:    http://www.punishmentbook.org (Punishment handbook)  http://www.leathernroses.com (good general lifestyle site)  http://www.fetlife.com (good forum for idea

2012-01-30 help:

I would start by gaining his trust. Long talks without judgement would seem in order. Find out as much as You can about him, his likes, wants, desires for the future, his hopes and dreams. If he has been

2012-01-28 how do I introduce my husband to D/s?:

First, please excuse the lateness of this answer. I have given this much thought over the past few days, as this is a tricky situation, and I wanted to give it proper thought.    While your husband may

2012-01-27 Long distance D/s woes:

Dusty    Sorry to hear about your woes.  I however, feel it sounds more like love and romance than BDSM.  That being said a couple points, long distance is always very difficult.  The emotional support

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