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EliseU.S.
Available
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I can answer questions ranging from why someone would cheat, how to get away with it, and most importantly in recognizing when your motives are not the correct ones. I can help with someone who is unsure with their feelings and recognize when someone should be talked out of doing something they will regret. When dealing with those who are hurt by a cheater in their life, I am sensitive to their condition and answer questions from "the other side of the fence" in a way that focuses on the importance of not taking it as personally as many do. I will also emphasize the importance of not emotionally abusing your partner while cheating, and how to appropriately accept the consequences and not hurt your partner further if caught. There is a big difference between emotional cheating and physical cheating and I am quick to point out when someone is taking advantage of their partner by cheating emotionally, versus someone who is not satisfied but still deeply loves their partner. | |
Melissa DurazoU.S.
On Vacation
returns 11/30/2009 |
I will not help you cheat, so please do not ask me how to. If you are having issues with a cheater or suspect your mate of cheating, then, I can help you deal with the issue. I may have the answers on how to confront and deal with a cheating man or woman. I can answer questions concerning the physical and mental anguish that a cheating mate can cause. advise how to move on from this type of relationship. Or, advise on how to forgive and work on fulfilling a new start. I can also help in recognizing the signs and lies of a cheater. As well, as how to catch one in the act. |
Well mistress or not, if it wasn't agreed to be exclusive she will pull that card at the very least. I don't think it would be worth your wile to confront her, you might loose more than gain. I never
When you say she... do you mean your wife or your lover? What I mean to say is if your lover and you discussed that she only be with you and you only be with her and your wife, then you may have more
A lot of people say they just want to know the truth and don't care. But really you do care or you wouldn't be that curious. It's clear you are emotionally involved with your lover or you would expect
Oh honey! That is a rough spot! There are heavier thing's weighing on this subject than just... should I leave. Everyone may tell you to stick with the father because she needs her father. But the fact
In all honesty. No, he did not truly love you. Nor, does he even love this other girl he is with. He stays with her only because, she puts up with his crap and she has no self esteem. I went through

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