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Terri Matheis

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I have been divorced twice and have dated extensively! I can answer any question on the subject of dating.

Jeanne

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I can answer questions from other mid-lifers about finding a committed partner, especially online.

Philip Belove, Ed.D.

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Hi. I`m Philip Belove (that is my name, really). I`m 60 and I`ve been a psychologist all my midlife, the past 25 years. My specialty has been counseling and coaching other midlife adults.  I think we all figure things out as we go along, but even more so at midlife. Being between 40-ish and 60-ish and single is like being a stranger in a strange land. I`ve learned which questions help people find their own way. I created this category, I publish a dating at midlife newsletter and I write articles for various web sites. My commitment is to help people 1) understand and improve how they deal with others, 2) understand the forces that rule the relationships they are in, and 3) make the decisions which will shape, or create, or end those relationships  so they achieve the goal of midlife development  to finally live with personal satisfaction. I`ve been divorced twice myself. I`m in a satisfying relationship with a fine person. I`m very interested in learning about your challenges and in offering what I can.

Azure

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can answer all inquiries relating to dating/relationships REGARDLESS of age or other factors, making the appropriate adjustments in thought/advice for each unique situation..tech editor, "dating for dummies", dr joy browne..BA psychology, graduate study, fordham univ school of social work..

Valerie

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My answers are to women only! The truth is, Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars! A woman will not get the same answer from a man as she will from another woman. Life is totally different for the "Baby Boomers" of today and dating is not what it was 30 years ago.

Lauren Kaufman

U.S.
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I can answer all questions pertaining to dating, dating at 50+, online dating, health and sexual issues regarding relationships.

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2009-11-19 infatuation:

Hi, the beginning of your paragraph made sense to me, but not the last sentence. Why would you wait for a man who is leaving the country to be with another woman in the Philippines? And what does it mean

2009-11-14 Latest events:

Hi Jeanne, His pain is not really your issue. Was he concerned about your hurt, when he vacillated about marriage, living with you or anything else you wanted to do. He was more concerned about his needs

2009-11-10 relationship with father of out of control teen boy:

Nice to hear from you Renee, thanks for the update. So you've become more and more of the therapist for Tony and then I get to be the supervisor of your therapy project. Did I ever send you the

2009-11-07 Crossing lines:

First, they are separate problems -- I'm pretty sure of that -- so don't conflate them. It will make it more difficult to understand what's up and what you need to do. First the problem of married men:

2009-11-03 More on dating father of out of control teen boy:

Hi Renee. Thanks for the update. I would guess you've convinced your counselors that you want support from them to hang in and they went along with you. I would do the same as far as that's concerned

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