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expertise: over 7000 questions answered...B.A. Psychology Bates College;graduate study, Fordham Univ. School Social Work...technical editor, "dating for dummies";thoughtful consideration of your question, then insightful advice about love,romance and related issues given in an objective, non-judgmental manner...over 20 years of personal experience in both short and long term relationships...longer term consultations are available uponrequest...life experience: personal involvement in many relationships where issues of love, sex, intimacy, trust, etc., had to be dealt with and resolved...just having "experiences", however, isn`t enough...it`s the thoughtful reflection upon and analysis of what happened and why, that leads to learning and enlightenment...so tell me what`s on your mind and i`ll try to help, or tell you if i can`t...thanks

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I have the ability to give mature and appropriate responses to questions regarding adolescent and early adulthood sexuality. Inquiries regarding gay and lesbian activities will be answered without moralizing on my part and will be purely gender sensitive.

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2009-11-20 Semi erection:

possibly a physical issue, or more likely, performance anxiety, which can occur with attractive women that you hope will perceive you as a great lover, so you get anxious, a situation not liked by the

2009-11-18 wife hates sex after mariage:

you're about 24 years late writing this; at this point, i doubt anything is changing; why you've put up with this all these years is a question for your thrapist; she obviously has sexual interest/desire

2009-11-16 Can't reach orgasm:

since you've had orgasms, i don't think past issues are the problem; it's more that you're too FOCUSED on it--lovemaking is not just about the orgasm; the idea is to give/receive affection--once you put

2009-11-15 Lack of Sex After 50:

i wouldn't call it a problem, unless YOU view it as such...some guys your age have no interest beyond 2/3 orgasms /wk...if your needs are greater, no harm being done..ps at some point, if u have the time/$$

2009-11-15 Lack of Sex After 50:

word of encouragement: accept the unchangeable--as to whether her lack of desire for you is one of her many possible reasons for interest loss, either way, same result...unless you care to make her cooperation

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