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Gary

U.S.
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I can answer questions about coming out as well as dealing with family members who are (and are not) supportive. I can also answer questions about gay marriage.

Adriaan Pretorius

South Africa
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Any questions on how to come out, handling people close to you, handling the pressures of being gay in society, going out, seeking a partner, etc. are welcome. I live in South Africa and may have a unique perspective on gay live, as gays do not live openly and have been scorned for a long time here. If you need to speak to someone, and no one wants to listen, I will try my best to be a friend when you have none.

Tedd Adams

U.S.
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I can answer questions related to gay life in general, but also specifically questions about gay youth, coming out, dealing with family issues, religion and homosexuality, and workplace issues. I have also visited many of the popular gay travel destinations and can give you advice on what is worth seeing and what is not.

AVISO: También, puedo responder a preguntas en español.

Toby Fuller

Australia
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I can help with your questions about coming out, dealing with people after coming out, relationships and how to handle the community with being gay and dealing with life after and before coming out, the thing is that, you don't need to do any of this alone.

Jim Swanson

U.S.
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I have often helped gays in their challenge to understand what it means to come out and how best to start down that road. I have and also helped gays to reconcile the often difficult struggle of being gay and being a Christian. I now understand one of God's truths more clearly: Our pain is not wasted when we can reach around and comfort another coming along behind us on the same path.

Kade Williams

Australia
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I can help with any questions that you have about coming out, dealing with those around you, dealing with fantasises that you may have, dating and anything else that you may have trouble with or that are causing you stress in life about your sexuality so just ask away and I will help in the best way I can.

Ben

U.K.
Available
Questions relating to coming out to friends and family, social issues, issues in the workplace, relationship issues, issues relating to gay life in general. Issues relating to gay sex, protection and sexually transmitted infections and worries about first time gay sex. I can also answer questions in relation to being gay and religion.

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2012-02-05 Bisexuality:

Dear Jason    One's sexuality is no one business, that's the short answer.  Straight people don't go around telling others they like the opposite sex and if we expect any kind of normal reaction to our

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2012-01-29 preventing a breakup:

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