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Elle

Canada
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Hello! I would be more than happy to consider questions you may have concerning dating. If you have questions regarding meeting the right person, interesting and fun things to do on a first date or any date for that matter. I can also answer questions regarding basic relationship problems you may be having, such as not meeting the right person, how to figure out exactly what it is you want in a partner, or issues you may be facing in your current relationship. I cannot answer questions that deal with physical or emotional abuse or other psychological issues. Please be advised that I cannot read the mind of another person, therefore I cannot answer a question which involves me trying to figure out what someone is thinking, why they did what they did, or if they like you. No two people will react the same in a situation, so it's impossible for me to know exactly what their intentions are based on their actions. I also believe that I would be much better at answering questions to those over the age of 25. In addition, I will not answer questions with vulgar or slang language.

Harry Ax

Australia
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Relationships, Dating, Sex, Does he like me?, Should I dump him?, How do I ask her out?, Why doesn't anyone like me?, What do men want?, What do women want?, Am I too promiscuous?, He's married what should I do?, How do I give her multiple orgasms?, Dealing with Ex's, ect. ect. Warning: I may be blunt. I'm in my 20s so this is relevant and practical advice.

Abhi

India
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I can answer basic questions about relationships like how to meet the right person, how to express your feelings, how to cope with long distance relationships. I cannot answers psychological issues. I believe that being a young person I can understand teenage issues much better.

Mike Lamb

U.S.
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My expertise is in answering questions from men about dating women. I have a wealth of knowledge pertaining to nearly all facets of the dating world today. We all know that there are ways to be successful in dating, but what are they? I can answer that for you. I want to teach you how to find not just any woman who will date you, but the RIGHT woman who has long-term potential for a healthy relationship. That starts with how you act and treat women in the very beginning of the dating stages. I can teach how to get there and stay there for the duration of the relationship, on into marriage if that's where it leads. My aim is to teach you to respect yourselves as men first, to be gentlemen, and to change your life for the better. That is my passion. I want to support all good men in successful dating practices. I am not here to offer pick-up techniques or to help you get women into bed. My purpose is more noble than that. I cannot answer questions pertaining to psychology or psychological problems as these would best be addressed by a mental health counselor .....

James

U.S.
Available
I will be the first to admit that I am not a professional expert when it comes to dating, women/men, and interpersonal connections I will say that I have learned quite a bit vicariously from other people's experiences, and I have developed opinions on all of these topics. Think of my advice as a second opinion. After all people seek advice not when they don't know the answer, but when they want to hear what they sort of already knew from someone else to be sure that they aren't going crazy. lol.

I would be happy to answer all questions related to relationships, dating, self-confidence, or if a woman questioner, if they look better in the red or the blue one. lol. However there are a few questions I don't feel I would be especially good at answering, which I've listed below.

I hope more than anything that my advice and opinions will help give people perspective in their lives, and hopefully make them feel better about themselves and their situations. I will attempt answering questions for anyone of any age group or nationality. However it would be particularly useful to know the age of all people involved .....

Relationship Counsellor

India
Available
I am quite experienced and matured enough to handle questions related to following topics: 1) Love- Friendship 2) Issues in all kinds of relationships. 3) making a relationship work. 4) Effective tips to sustain a relationship. 5) Sex related queries. Well as of now haven't come across any such questions, which would offend me or I lack expertise in, but am a straight forward person and doesn't hold my wordings back. I don't mind being honest in case I lack knowledge about particular aspect and quite flexible to accept genuine views of others or seek other professionals for my case studies, to help the clients out.

Chris Chandra

Canada
Available
****First and foremost. I only provide dating advice to men. I've received numerous emails from women asking for advice, I appreciate your questions but I only focus on mens advice. Thank you for understanding.**** I can answer questions regarding the general dating lifestyle specifically for men. Anywhere from how to approach and engage a conversation with women at bars or clubs to building attraction. Part of the dating world is the inner game we play and that has to do with confidence, self-image and shyness. I can give tailored advice on how to overcome shyness and build confidence in highly specific situations. The need for belonging is a fundamental part of human beings and that includes attracting a mate. Often times that proves difficult when you have a general lack of knowledge of the opposite sex coupled with inner anxiety. My advice usually involves a two part answer with an instant gratification solution followed by a long-term strategy. I however do not answer questions regarding long-term relationship issues. I might dive into that later but I prefer answering questions for the initial attraction phase. I also do not answer relationship questions asked by Women because that's another ball game .....

Jordan Klan

Australia
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I am able to answer any questions relating to the behaviour and actions of a particular person, and why they are acting in a certain way. I am also able to answer any psychological issues relating to dating that you may have. I do not specialise in questions such as "Does he/she have a crush on me", as I find it is extremely hard to answer those sorts of questions based on one person's written perspective. However, I will do my best to answer any questions which come my way.

Dr. Dennis W. Neder

U.S.
Available
I'm able to answer any sort of question related to the approach, meeting people, dating, sex, relationships, break-ups, non-legal marriage and divorce questions, and anything in between. I've helped over 30,000 people with their individual issues. IMPORTANT: Please, PLEASE don't ask me, "what was he thinking..." or "why did he say..." types of questions! I DO NOT READ MINDS! There are 1,001 reasons why someone does what they do, says what they say or thinks what they think. If you *REALLY* want to know what they were thinking, saying or why they were acting that way - go ask them! Be sure to check out my FAQ's on my website at: http://beingaman.com. You can email me directly at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

Joe Burgett

U.S.
Available
I can answer anything in the dating world. Whether it be love, sex, break ups, hardships, first dates, you name it. I have been an expert on this site for 2 years in various places, and mainly answer questions for teen dating, but being that I am in the between stage of teen and adult (in my 20s), I understand the new and old on things and no one is too young or too old to ask my help.

Azure

U.S.
Available
expertise: over 7000 questions answered...B.A. Psychology Bates College;graduate study, Fordham Univ. School Social Work; technical editor, "dating for dummies", 2d edition, by dr joy browne; thoughtful consideration of your question, then insightful advice about love,romance and related issues given in an objective, non-judgmental manner...over 20 years of personal experience in both short and long term relationships...longer term consultations are available upon request...life experience: personal involvement in many relationships where issues of love, sex, intimacy, trust, etc., had to be dealt with and resolved...just having "experiences", however, isn`t enough...it`s the thoughtful reflection upon and analysis of what happened and why, that leads to learning and enlightenment...so tell me what`s on your mind and i`ll try to help, or tell you if i can`t...thanks

Behavior, Conflict and Relationships

U.S.
On Vacation
returns 05/31/2012
Examining human behavior, conflict, the psychology behind people's actions and the dynamics of relationships. Behavior is often about unspoken feelings, underlying motives and patterns. Learning to recognize what you're seeing in others and how to interpret the meaning will tell you what people are really thinking and why they're acting as they are. Understanding others is also about what is said and what isn't, what words are used and which ones aren't. The devil, it is said, is in the details. Subtleties matter. If you are educated, focused, experienced and perceptive, you are far more empowered to successfully and safely navigate human interactions and you can predict with far greater certainty what is coming next. You will be able to take in information and think on the move with numerous stimuli without even realizing you're doing it. Please share what state or country you live in. Please also do me a little favor with a big-time impact -- type your message in more than one paragraph. It will make it easier to respond to you more quickly.

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2012-05-24 About break-ups:

Sounds like you equate money to happiness and want to have a controlling position in a relationship? Do you perhaps want to feel wanted and pay all the bills and basically mother someone or something?

2012-05-24 Double standards?:

I’m just that good! I take it as a compliment so thank-you again for that. The reality is I’ve dedicated myself to understanding who I am as a man as well as how other men and women work in general. I’m

2012-05-24 Double standards?:

Thank-you for the compliment Ayesha. I’m very pleased to hear that my feedback was helpful. Sounds like I hit the nail on the head with your boyfriend didn’t I? I didn’t want to assume that he was insecure

2012-05-24 Double standards?:

Hi there,    That is actually a very good question. I suspect you will get different answers from different people, especially based on the gender of the person you’re asking. You sound like a confident

2012-05-24 Is Marriage Obsolete?:

Hello Hannah!    Just 15-20 years ago (and before) people got married for very different reasons than they do today and did so under very different circumstances. You can't really compare marriage today

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