Doug Adams, Ph.D.
|I am willing to answer questions in all areas of sexuality. I have been giving advice to both males and females for over 11 years, and in that time I have answered thousands of questions. I advocate taking healthy practices into account in engaging sexually.|
K-Y Jelly is kind of goopy and might reduce sensation more than some of the liquid products. The liquids made by K-Y are very good. You would probably like K-Y Liquid better than K-Y Jelly. See here
I would do without any tab/pill/creme until you have gotten your sensation back. Are you using condoms at all? Sometimes condoms inhibit sensitivity but sometimes they also enhance it. Try different
If you don't want to have sex in a particular position, then don't. Some positions are more likely to lead to injuries than others. Only do what you feel comfortable with. If your girlfriend won't accommodate
Are you able to reach orgasm while masturbating? Most women find it easier to reach orgasm on their own. Then they can help their partner bring them to orgasm. It is much more difficult to teach a partner
I've never heard of a man's testes being damaged from a woman on top position, but I've heard of cases of penile fracture. The penis can pop out if it's pushed too hard sideways while erect. You don't