Doug Adams, Ph.D.
|I am willing to answer questions in all areas of sexuality. I have been giving advice to both males and females for over 11 years, and in that time I have answered thousands of questions. I advocate taking healthy practices into account in engaging sexually.|
Many men over 40 like using erection drugs. Viagra is more popular than Cialis. You would have to get a prescription from your doctor. Viagra is more easily parceled into smaller doses. Some men take
Frisky means energetic, or playful. In the case of sexuality, it means a partner is up for more than ordinary in-and-out coitus before bed. One of the partners feels like being adventuresome and perhaps
K-Y Jelly is kind of goopy and might reduce sensation more than some of the liquid products. The liquids made by K-Y are very good. You would probably like K-Y Liquid better than K-Y Jelly. See here
I would do without any tab/pill/creme until you have gotten your sensation back. Are you using condoms at all? Sometimes condoms inhibit sensitivity but sometimes they also enhance it. Try different
If you don't want to have sex in a particular position, then don't. Some positions are more likely to lead to injuries than others. Only do what you feel comfortable with. If your girlfriend won't accommodate