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dating sites??..and he got away with that?just because you spend every nite together doesn't mean he's faithful...there could be a million reasons..you need to INFORM him that the situation is unacceptable
so, as i inferred, it will be "some version" of what you already have...chances are this will change when one of you meets someone he/she gets serious with...you can play the friend game for now, but i'd
only SHE knows why she acts as she does...actions say more than feelings..if you want to be with this girl forever, tell her, give her a ring--her response will tell you what you want to know, but my feeling
the problem is/was that this arrangement was never defined, leading to a hodge podge of mixed, confused emotions, resentments, push/pull actions; the choices: asking for an exclusive, committed, happily
you can't really be "friends" with the feelings you have--stop trying to--it will only bring you more heartache/sadness..the guy has a girl, so you need to get your emotions out of this, get out of the

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