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As the author of a novel about my life online in chat rooms specifically, and a few adventures into online dating, I can answer almost any question anyone could ask about chatting online. The excitement, the adrenalin rush, the manipulation of the mind, the corruption of morals, the danger of stalking and harrassment online and offline, the lies, the secrets. The reality of this `fantasy` is frightening. My book tells a story that hopefully will make anyone who reads it more wary and chatwise than I was when I stumbled upon chat in late 1999 as a naive woman who ..... |
Hello Raj From what I've read you are not your own person. You are still your mother's son and you put her feelings about your friend before your own. You aren't good relationship material I'm sorry
Hi cathleen Everyone is different. Some can forgive and forget and get on with picking up the pieces and renewing the relationship. I think that those people are blessed, especially if once the pieces
Hi Quinton Seems that we both have the same question and I am disappointed to have to say that I don't know the answer. I have been chatting in BigPond since 1999 and I can't believe how the numbers
Hi lisa I really have no idea why you are in such a turmoil about being friends with this guy who was once the boyfriend of a female acquaintance. You could have met him without ever knowing who his
Hello chitownMa The only person who can make a decision for you, is you. My advice would be to get your children out of that situation, if at all possible. I don't know your husband so I have no idea

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