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Joel Kimball

U.S.
Available
  • Knowledgeability 9.83
  • Clarity of Response 9.87
  • Politeness 9.96
  • Response Time(hr) 38.3
  •  --Last 90 Days(hr) 118.9
  • Total Questions 375
 I'm good at listening, even better at giving advice.

Virginity does matter! And no sex before marriage is possible, regardless of what your friends, family, or (worst of all) society tell you. It's a choice, like any thing else in life. Not an easy one, so that's why I'm here to help.

I'm happy to answer your questions:
- WHY you should stay a virgin until marriage
- HOW you can stay a virgin until marriage
- HOW to deal with boy or girl friends pushing you to engage in sex
- HOW to deal with friends who push you to engage in sex
- HOW to deal with a family who won't support you in your choice of abstinence

sarah

U.S.
Available
  • Knowledgeability 9.92
  • Clarity of Response 9.82
  • Politeness 9.88
  • Response Time(hr) 30.4
  •  --Last 90 Days(hr) 45.5
  • Total Questions 240
 I have raised three teenage daughters and have been there for them, through peer pressure, helping them on self esteem issues, sharing feelings, communicating with their partners and making personal decisions. I am very proud of them today and feel fortunate to have had the education to guide them in becoming the confident and professional women they are today as well as valued wives and mothers. In my career as a registered nurse, I've been a childbirth educator for pregnant teens and at the delivering bedside of teens as young as 12. I've taught health education to students from grades K-12, especially helping them to explore the values that can work well in their lives, helped them to clarify which values might be most meaningful to them, and have always shared the concepts of caring (for themselves and others), having respect (for themselves and others) and taking responsibility (expecially for their own actions). I can be a listening ear, supportive when needed, an educator, (I have a master's degree as a nurse-specialist in child and adolescent health), and a resource for information.

Grace Ashi

U.S.
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 Questions regarding virginity and staying a virgin until marriage. It is such a precious gift that should be valued and shared with that special someone. I went through my college years being a virgin and until this day i kept my virginity. It is very possible and I am here to help. I understand all the frustration and confusion because I have been through it. I am here to give you advice and let you know how precious your virginity is. I do not believe in sex before marriage therefore I cannot answer questions on how to loose your virginity. Please tell me your age when asking a question.

Wil

U.S.
Available
  • Knowledgeability 9.90
  • Clarity of Response 9.78
  • Politeness 9.95
  • Response Time(hr) 36.5
  •  --Last 90 Days(hr) 34.6
  • Total Questions 421
 I can answer any type of question having to do with sex, remaining a virgin until you are ready and talking to your significant other about waiting for any advances in your relationship that you are not ready for. Anything including sex, oral sex, touching, and anything else pertaining to your relationship. I'm great with relationship advice as well. I also know a lot about both male and female "pleasure points". So please do not hesitate to ask me anything.

Kate

U.K.
Maxed Out
  • Knowledgeability 9.85
  • Clarity of Response 9.88
  • Politeness 9.92
  • Response Time(hr) 30.1
  •  --Last 90 Days(hr) 60.1
  • Total Questions 150
 I can answer all questions relating to staying a virgin. Although I am now not one myself I was a late starter. I know how hard it is to resist temptations and peer pressure. I also know how hard it is to keep a relationship strong while still staying a virgin. I know that sometimes it feels like you’re the only person alive not having sex but you are not alone. I want to help you feel secure in your beliefs whatever they may be. Whether it be religion or your own morals.

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2012-01-09 hickies/lovebites:

Hello Tammy,  A love bite or hickey is basically a bruise. There's nothig dangerous about them except for the varying pain felt afterwards. Everyone is different and so it's hard for me to hve you a definite

2012-01-09 hand jobs and touching:

Hey Tammy,  Sex, including oral sex, is an expression of yourself. So I can't really tell you what to do, it's a natural thing that comes to you. I can give you the generics to figure out your method.

2012-01-08 Sniffing My Boyfriend's Penis:

Hey Fatima,  I won't judge you and your pleasures. We all have our little fetishes. It's rather interesting that you point that out. I've noticed that unuique smell myself. I've never done research on

2012-01-08 Sniffing My Boyfriend's Penis:

Hello Fatima....  Whatever turns you on....is most likely the decaying odor of bacteria....  This site is not to answer such questions.  It is intended to help people make decisions about whether or not

2012-01-04 Confused:

Hello Priscilla,    You're dealing with several issues.   Whether to accept that you're a sexual being, or reject sex.    Wondering "How" to get help with the issues bothering you.   Whether the issues

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