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Cathy

Germany
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I can answer any questions on teenage life eg. growing up, parents etc. , sex,sexuality, virginity and peer pressure.

sarah

U.S.
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I have raised three teenage daughters and have been there for them, through peer pressure, helping them on self esteem issues, sharing feelings, communicating with their partners and making personal decisions. I am very proud of them today and feel fortunate to have had the education to guide them in becoming the confident and professional women they are today as well as valued wives and mothers. In my career as a registered nurse, I've been a childbirth educator for pregnant teens and at the delivering bedside of teens as young as 12. I've taught health education to students from grades K-12, especially helping them to explore the values that can work well in their lives, helped them to clarify which values might be most meaningful to them, and have always shared the concepts of caring (for themselves and others), having respect (for themselves and others) and taking responsibility (expecially for their own actions). I can be a listening ear, supportive when needed, an educator, (I have a master's degree as a nurse-specialist in child and adolescent health), and a resource for information.

Kate

U.K.
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I can answer all questions relating to staying a virgin. Although I am now not one myself I was a late starter. I know how hard it is to resist temptations and peer pressure. I also know how hard it is to keep a relationship strong while still staying a virgin. I know that sometimes it feels like you’re the only person alive not having sex but you are not alone. I want to help you feel secure in your beliefs whatever they may be. Whether it be religion or your own morals.

Wil

U.S.
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My AIM screen name is allvirginexpert so you may contact me at any time, I will always be mobile. I will try my best to respond soon, although I might be at school or asleep. Please, this is a privilege not a right, it can be taken away. I can answer any type of question having to do with sex, remaining a virgin until you are ready and talking to your significant other about waiting for any advances in your relationship and that you are not ready for anything including sex, oral sex, touching, and anything else pertaining to your relationship. I also know a lot about both male and female sex organs. Also, I am Christian, so I can also help you with any Christ related questions about sex. Please provide me with your sex, age, country, and a good amount of background information so I can further help you. Thank you, and enjoy!

Joel Kimball

U.S.
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I'm good at listening, even better at giving advice.

Virginity does matter! And no sex before marriage is possible, regardless of what your friends, family, or (worst of all) society tell you. It's a choice, like any thing else in life. Not an easy one, so that's why I'm here to help.

I'm happy to answer your questions:
- WHY you should stay a virgin until marriage
- HOW you can stay a virgin until marriage
- HOW to deal with boy or girl friends pushing you to engage in sex
- HOW to deal with friends who push you to engage in sex
- HOW to deal with a family who won't support you in your choice of abstinence

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2009-11-17 virgin:

Hello Yteria, You question is missing some thing, doesn't quite make sense. Did you mean "Why are they ashamed"? or "Should they be ashamed"? If so, they shouldn't be ashamed of being a virgin.

2009-11-17 virgin:

I would imagine that this would be the case...that perhaps they are wishing that they had remained virginal. If a person has been sexually permissive, and then tries to hide that behavior, it is very

2009-11-17 can you lose your virginity this way?:

Hi Chris, No you cannot lose your virginity this way, you will still be a virgin even if you give or receive oral sex. Virginity is only lost when you have penetrative sex. It is very normal for

2009-11-12 i need help:

Hi Marie, You are soooo good for not putting it out for him. That says a HUGE amount about your self respect. Don't give in, you are absolutely doing the right thing. Your boy friend is the luckiest

2009-11-11 What do I do now?:

Hi Christa, You posted in the wrong place, I'm here to help people hold on to their virginity until they get a life long commitment. Obviously it's too late for that now, and your dilemma is exactly

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