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I have been a counselor for over 30 years in private practice and hospital settings. For deeper understanding and healing childhood experiences affecting adult life and relationships with self and others see the reader-friendly source http://www.amazon.com/Effective-Counseling-Skills-therapeutic-statements/dp/1442177993
College of Professional Counseling and Therapy at http://www.counseling-skills.com
author, "Effective Counseling Skills" at http://tinyurl.com/yen574x and "Loss and Grief Counseling Skills" at http://tinyurl.com/35da8ov
MSW in psychiatric clinical social work
I find the struggles people face are challenging, interesting, and gratifying to assist.
I believe everyone has the ability to self-heal and that many adult problems are in fact understandable childhood ways of coping with pain that have been brought forward into adult life. The key to much healing is to give oneself the healthy parental caring that was missed in childhood.
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| Donna | 05/14/12 | 6 | 2 | 10 | |
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You need to structure your behavior. Example: set a 15 minute limit for internet use then take a 30 minute time away frlom it. Get an alarm clock to time yourself. To get knowledge of self, read http://www
Maybe there are issues in your childhood background. To take a strictly behavioral approach, first place your hand next to hers without touching. This will heighten the desire. Then touch with one finger
I recommend seeing a counsellor who uses a combination of psychdynamic and cognitive behavioural and grief counselling and who also does communication skills training. Work on chilhood experiences affecting
You are depressed and can get better. Be good to yourself and think positive things about yourself. Let go of the past loss of love and move forward. To do this try talking or writing about your painful
Talk about it to someone you trust. Imagine these experiences are items placed in a garbage can. Then close the lid. Take them out and look at them briefly as needed or as they arise, then put them back
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