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I can answer your questions about parenting your High Functioning Autisic or Asperger`s Syndrome child. In particular, questions about family life, discipline, siblings, finding resources, and working with (sometimes opposing) the educational system are welcome.
I am the parent of an Asperger's Syndrome child who is now 22 years old. She went undiagnosed for 14 years of her life, so I have done extensive reading and Internet research into the possible cause of her difficulties. Even a short 8 years ago, A.S. was practically unheard of by the public educational system.
We fumbled our way through her childhood and early adolescence without any effective outside support. In some ways, that may have been a blessing as we were focused on her abilities rather than a label for her disability. However, I can think of many times when knowing WHY would have been comforting.
Had we known very early on, some social skills interventions might have made her life in school easier. At this point, I like her for who she is so I do not regret how things have turned out. More importantly, she likes herself.
I have a Bachelor of Science in Education.
I have worked to educate myself about Autism in general and HFA/AS in particular.
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Autism is far more common in boys than in girls. This should not keep parents from believing a daughter has a Spectrum disorder if the symptoms are present.
There is much controversy about the causes of Autistic Spectrum Disorders. Since there are often near relatives with milder forms of "disorder", I tend to believe there is an hereditary component. I do not believe that vaccinations cause it as there are often symptoms evident before the child even receives the suspect inoculation.
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Hi Kay, If your son has an IEP, ask for an update meeting on the grounds that the transition from one teacher to several is not working well and nobody is on the same page. All his teachers should attend
Hi Tod and Cindy, Defiance is a common thing in HFA kids. Many autistic spectrum individuals are extremely intelligent and that can make a child hard to discipline. She knows what she wants and can
Hi Christina, Let's start with the limited vocabulary. It's important to remember that he may have far better received language skills than output skills. That means he may understand even if he cannot
Hi Dana, This is a difficult question because it is impossible to know what started this behavior. She may just be experimenting with independence. Or, she may have suffered some emotional upset you
Hi Kimberly, If your daughter is attending a program on a regular basis, I would be asking what they plan to do to keep her skills sharp until Kindergarten comes around without causing her to lapse
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