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I am a survivor. I know what it’s like to be the victim. I am now a Sexual Assault Victim’s Care Advocate. I have been certified as such since November 2000. I am currently a student who is specializing in trauma and abuse and the associated disorders and illnesses.
I am a survivor. So, I not only have book smarts but, personal experience with what rape is and how much it affects the victim and his or her loved ones.
There is nothing to like about rape. I do like however, that I can help other victims re-learn their bodies, and take back their lives after being raped.
I am a continuing student. There is always new information and support groups and networks. In fact, just recently an online hotline was launched.
Nothing interesting about rape, but beauty in surviving and learning to live again with the help of a friend.
You should not have been drinking or should not have worn those clothes.. that you asked for "it", No.... No you never deserve to be raped and it is never your fault.
| User | Date | K | C | T | P | Comments |
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| laura | 10/14/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | For going through as much as you ..... |
| betty | 10/08/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | thanks. i will definately check out someone ..... |
| DEBORAH | 10/07/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | I thank you for your very quick ..... |
| Melissa | 08/30/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you so much for your response ..... |
| Rick | 08/23/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Kim, I appreciate your quick and caring ..... |
Laura, Well, I am guessing you are asking for yourself and not as a student? In the interviewing they’ll ask you more about history. They’ll ask about you and your past. They may ask you to share
Samantha, It’s Ok to be afraid to start talking about this and it’s Ok to be afraid of the unknown and knowing that this will be hard and even scary. The good news is that I hear that you want to
Chloe, Is your boyfriend having feelings of violence now too? This is a big concern for me. While this may be how he copes with what has happened to him. This could put you in danger. He needs to
Laura, I am curious, does he feel some sort of obligation to his family. Is it really love or fear? Intense emotions when you’ve gone through as much as he has, can easily be confused. Does he understand
Well I don’t have a zip code, but here is rape and incest orientated help in your area, this is a great place to start, with therapy and legal help. You may consider looking at the website as well and

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