Rape Counseling/Expert Profile

Expertise

I am a survivor. I know what it’s like to be the victim. I am now a Sexual Assault Victim’s Care Advocate. I have been certified as such since November 2000. I am currently a student who is specializing in trauma and abuse and the associated disorders and illnesses.

Experience in the area

I am a survivor. So, I not only have book smarts but, personal experience with what rape is and how much it affects the victim and his or her loved ones.

Education/Credentials

I am working on my Master's in Psychology specializing in trauma and abuse. I am in addition working on two associate degrees in Social Work and Women and Gender studies.

What do you like about this subject?

There is nothing to like about rape. I do like however, that I can help other victims re-learn their bodies, and take back their lives after being raped.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

I am a continuing student. There is always new information and support groups and networks. In fact, just recently an online hotline was launched.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

Nothing interesting about rape, but beauty in surviving and learning to live again with the help of a friend.

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

You should not have been drinking or should not have worn those clothes.. that you asked for "it", No.... No you never deserve to be raped and it is never your fault.

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Kat10/12/101010 
Michael Blake07/29/10101010Thank you, I will do my best .....
Alex07/28/10101010Thank you for your help.
Debs06/25/10101010 
Lauren06/20/10101010i told my family but they tell .....

Recent Answers from Kim

2010-10-18 boyfriend raped:

Melody,    I never assume that anyone is "making up" that they've been assaulted, and for men to come forward it's a lot harder (at least statistically), because of the very reasons you've expressed.

2010-10-15 Losing control of myself:

First off some many things go through our heads after the fact that we may not consider or think of when we are in the moment.  We are made to be trusting individuals and it’s not until we are wronged

2010-10-12 Is it normal for it to come back and haunt me?:

Well, initially you were probably dealing with the shock, and you were likely dealing with RTS or Rape Trauma Syndrome.  Here is a link that helps explain RTS  http://www.aest.org.uk/survivors/rts.html

2010-10-04 I need help...and my depression is getting worst....:

Hello Irma,    My guess is that your depression is getting worse, because maybe you are coming up on an anniversary of your rape? Maybe this is a time of year that upsets you more?  Maybe there are some

2010-07-28 Rape:

Larry,  First I would report what you know to the school, and the authorities.  I would also consider talking with the kids (they are minors, and it sounds like you are an adult?)  I would tell the parents

 

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