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I can answer general questions regarding separation, property, and some custody questions. I cannot answer legal questions or specific questions pertaining to individual states and counties. I can offer support through the pending time, as well as offering assistance and ideas as you move on as a single individual. I can tell you how to avoid repeat pitfalls and help you learn to leave old baggage out of new relationships. I can help you work through the contemplative time of "what if" and "if only." I am able to offer advice in dealing with unnecessary guilt, undeserved judgment, and share insight as to discerning between concerned friends, family and coworkers and nosey gossips.
I have been divorced more than once and am now married to my soulmate. We are living the exact life we both wanted to build 30 years ago, long before we ever met. Well actually it's better than I had dared hope.
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Dear Chad, Start with an attorney. Many offer a first consultation at no charge. If you are paying child support, you should have no problem getting a judge to rule for your visitation. If you are
Dear Alysha, Without knowing what state you are in and what state you were married in, I can't give you an absolute answer, but I recommend that you contact an attorney in the state you are now living
Dear Beverley, I think you are between a rock and a hard spot, here. I agree with your assessment of the situation, but I don't think your boyfriend will hear that. If he's been providing all these
Dear Benjamin, I am not an attorney, but most divorce decrees have a very limited time for amendments, as in 30 days. Now, as for child custody or support payments, I know these can be changed at times
Dear Darla, You need to consult an attorney. State laws vary regarding abandonment or time frames for prolonged absence. If you still have his social security number, that's a start in finding him.
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