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I can answer questions on resolving professional and personal conflicts or communication issues in the workplace, with clients, in the home, or any encounter that needs or requires people conform to authority or common goal. My responses will be centered on tactics for getting more from the people around you and directed toward gaining their voluntary compliance, cooperation, or collaboration. Please note that the answers will not be in the form of a “Dear Abbey” response and my personal opinions will rarely be offered, but rather a soft or hard argument toward resolving the issue or demonstrating that words alone will not solve your dilemma or predicament. A web site with references and a partial client list is available upon request.

Experience in the area

I am the Vice President of the Verbal Judo Institute, Inc., and for the last twenty years I have traveled between 200 -300 days annually conducting training seminars on Verbal Judo in the United States, Canada, the Caribbean, Scandinavia, the Netherlands, and in England. I specialize in resolving conflicts that rise from workplace differences and highly charged emotional situations that impact cooperation and compliance, and how to deliver or receive bad news and communicate effectively through the issues that typically block the proper delivery or receiving of information in both professional and personal relationships.

Publications

I have been interviewed regarding Verbal Judo as the subject in magazine articles ranging in interest from Conde Nast Traveler, Broker Magazine, and sports publications like Referee Magazine; to newsprint articles in the USA Today, the Wall Street Journal, and over one hundred local print and online newspapers. I have been broadcast internationally on CNN; nationally on NBC, ABC, and Fox; in Canada on CBC; numerous local television stations; and interviewed on radio across North America and in Europe. In addition to the video clips I am currently producing, the President of the Institute, Dr. George J. Thompson, Ph.D., has four published books on the market (with more in current development) and several audio and video programs.

Education/Credentials

My educational background includes degrees in English, Business, and Organizational Communication with additional work in Psychology and Behavioral Science.

Past/Present Clients

From executives in corporate offices to front line staff in customer service industries, my clients are people in city, county, and the federal government; airline and cruise lines; banking; real estate operations; universities; and referees in professional sports. My audiences number several hundred thousand people attending Verbal Judo lectures world-wide and as a company our associates have collectively trained over one million people.

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Howard 01/05/12101010Much to consider! Thanks!!
Jitendra Solanki05/10/11 
Bob04/29/11101010 
Terry02/15/11101010Thank you for taking the time to .....
Louise01/26/11101010Thank you very much for your response .....

Recent Answers from Lee Fjelstad

2012-01-05 PACE - LEAPS:

Howard;    I would like to help you better with your request but there are a couple of problems; the first being the material is copyrighted and as such the distribution of the information in printed and

2011-05-06 Regd. Answer for a case study:

Dear Jitendra;    I ask your understanding with my turning down participation in your case study homework question.  I travel extensively and put in long hours.  My participation on the AllExperts site

2011-04-24 Going over my head:

Bob;     If you have the full support (assumption) of your boss then sadly, your boss is part of the problem.  As a proper supervisory support technique he or she should be deferring your subordinates

2011-03-08 Strategic management:

Good morning.      Unfortunately your question is not regarding conflict, which is where my connection to the AllExperts was agreed.  In addition, I have received several questions asking for a large amount

2011-02-15 public enterprises:

Neal;    Thanks for your interest but there is not an actual question regarding a conflict to resolve.  Recently I have received several problems regarding hypothetical situations and what appears to be

 

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