Masturbation/Expert Profile

Expertise

This information is intended for adults. Please do not submit a question if you are under age 18. I can answer a variety of questions about masturbation for both males and females: When an individual is beginning to masturbate(especially females), there can be so many questions and some just need a few tips to get started. I also address special interest topics such as 'how can I make it feel better when I masturbate?', body movement and sounds that happen during masturbation, prolonged masturbation, extending the plateau phase, multiple orgasm, and improving intensity of orgasm. Dont be apprehensive about asking what you need to know. Recent statistics show that 75% of women and almost 100% of men masturbate by their 18th birthday. Masturbating is a normal part of growing and the experiences can be stimulating , refreshing, and satisfying for both males and females.

Past/Present Clients

I have been privileged to help both women and men via email and instant messaging
Masturbating is beneficial for both sexes. Females have more to gain from it than males. During masturbation females learn what it takes to satisfy their urges and cravings and find the sexual release their body needs. I have helped many young ladies achieve their first orgasm. One middle-age woman who was not sure she had ever experienced an orgasm, began to masturbate to orgasm 2 to 4 times a week after we worked together for about 2 months. Another woman experienced her first episode of multiple orgasm as she experimented with the exercises and assignments given her. Some have been helped to build up to more intensely satisfying orgasms, or simply to make it feel better, to learn to get extreme sexual pleasure during their time of relaxing and personal enjoyment, even if there is no orgasm; its OK. Maybe I can help you make it feel good. Let me try.

What do you like about this subject?

This is a very exciting and adventurous subject. I especially enjoy knowing when a female who has struggled with some area of masturbation moves into a new experience and finds release and intense pleasure she has longed for; or discovers for herself orgasm for the first time. That is exciting! Masturbation is beneficial when not overdone.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

I hope to help many more women to overcome inhibitions about masturbation and begin to enjoy its benefits, to support and direct pre-orgasmic women who truly desire to find release for sexual tension and have an experience with orgasm. Learning early, young women often continue to masturbate because of the pleasure and relaxation it brings them.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

Masturbation frequently holds the key to enjoying other forms of sexual activity. You may not know that multiple orgasm is possible for men as well as for women. You can learn to enjoy episodes of multiple orgasm, sometimes with very little or no ejaculation at all. This does not come without hard work. It is much easier for females than for males.

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

Masturbation is beneficial at any age, but far too often it is not learned until a woman is in her late teens, or later... gives teens a way to address their developing sex drive, increases awareness of their changing body and provides some control over it; masturbating gives all ages an option other than sexual frustration or sex with a partner. Find pleasure and satisfaction thru masturbating.