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| Devin | 01/31/12 | 10 | 10 | 10 | |
| Teresa | 01/12/12 | 9 | 9 | 10 | This was not the answer I was ..... |
| Bryan | 04/25/11 | 8 | 7 | 4 | |
| Ash | 03/29/11 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thanks. It's just hard I guess when ..... |
| Hailey | 01/13/11 | 6 | 5 | 10 | Very short answer, and not very elaborate ..... |
1. yes, harmless, friendly communication need not be "reported"..2.counseling a waste of time if both parties aren't totally honest about all RELEVANT factors..3.before she leaves, she should have a plan
the choices are clear--1) you INFORM him that his abusive behavior is no longer acceptable, and that he immediately get counseling, and that the behavior stops NOW, or it's over, 2)leaving now before it
your task is almost impossible--people only change when THEY choose to; all you can do is calmly give her your imput, even suggest counseling; she's in an addicted relationship, and as such needs to be
not sure i understand that..anyone can move from here to another country...otherwise, call the dept of social services in your city/town...then the housing authority...there's a section 8 program that
where's the family?..can you go there?..any friends around to help?
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