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that was a description of one of the most unhealthy relationships anyone has ever written about; your low self-esteem/insecurities, have led you into this addictive arrangement, which, like a drug, is
so the real question is, when will you be able to overcome your insecurities and not allow this guy to jerk you around with these utter manipulations? this is nothing less than an addictive dependence
your mistake was getting involved, getting him dependent on you (like another drug), instead of requirng him to make the necessary changes PRIOR to any involvement beyond a friendship; at this point, your
make a plan for leaving, utilize friends/family, talk to the social services branch in your city that deals with abused women, contact a good attorney, if he comes near you, get a restraining order, have
it's not about what's goin on with him--suffice it to say he has too many negative traits to count; the real question is your self-esteem--why is it so incredibly low that you went back with, and continue
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