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I help people become clear about what they say they want, and hopefully clear about why they are not getting it. I do not answer questions like "How do I make a million dollars?" or "Where do I find my soul-mate?" or "What is the perfect job or career path for me?" I also don't do "romance" question, like "What shall I do if my boyfriend/girlfriend confuses me? I don't understand my lover, what shall I do?" I will answer questions from people who find themselves unclear, or confused about their purpose in life. I also help folks with limiting frameworks, beliefs, and emotional blocks that keep them stuck doing the same things over and over, while expecting different results.

Experience in the area

Have been a personal development coach for 10 years. Trained in Energy Techniques, including Provocative Energy Technique. Considerable, and varied personal life experience, and have created a very practical relationship workshop, complete with effective communication tools. I specialize in hearing and speaking the truth, and it is unimportant in the process whether you like the truth as it exists, or not.

Education/Credentials

Coach training from Coachville.com school of coaching. Energy techniques training via Emofree.com and EFT Downunder. Life experience and training from many full years of living on this planet. I also have a certain amount of formal education, which, as far as I am concerned, is not necessarily pertinent to this endeavor.

What do you like about this subject?

I get "juice" when I witness someone getting clarity and understanding about themselves - and I get even more "juice" when I get the same for myself.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

By championing clarity, truth and acceptance I hope to be able to demonstrate how fulfilling and energizing life can be.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

No matter how logical or reasonable you think you might be in decision making, there is always an emotional element to your choices. It is that emotional (especially if un-acknowledged) element that is likely causing whatever confusion, and frustration you have in your life.

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

When you practice clarity, truth and acceptance, it will probably disturb some people in your life. Some people may choose to distance themselves from you, others will want to become closer. So what happens is, people remaining in your life appreciate and value you, and you develop a better relationship with yourself.

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Recent Answers from Kerry D Sim

2011-12-15 I Want My Husband To Piss On Me:

Truthfully, I do think getting pissed on is weird. But that's just my opinion and it ain't a factor in my marriage. Bottom line, I'm not going to tell you what to say to your husband, it's up to you to

2011-09-23 Husband Wants to Retire:

My short answer to this kind of question is always: "Tell the truth."    If you communicate calmly and truthfully to him about your fears, and why you have them, without making YOUR fears HIS fault, chances

2011-05-03 major and job:

Josh, hate to break it to you but in the very first paragraph of my profile I state that I do not do career questions.     That being said, your question is whether I think you are making the best choice

2011-03-16 best wax:

Hi Julia,   Actually you may have seen me using auto wax on an airplane, I don't recall using aircraft wax. I did use wax on aircraft windshields to allow water and rain to bead off. If your car needs

2010-10-17 Marriage Bla Bla:

I notice, from this latest response of yours, you don't actually "hate marriage", but you do hate the possibility of not managing to marry someone you are "convinced with". That is different than simply

 

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