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I help people become clear about what they say they want, and hopefully clear about why they are not getting it. I do not answer questions like "How do I make a million dollars?" or "Where do I find my soul-mate?" or "What is the perfect job or career for me?" I also don't do "romance" question, like "What shall I do if my boyfriend/girlfriend confuses me? I don't understand my lover, what shall I do? I will answer questions from people who find themselves unclear, or confused about their purpose in life. I also help folks with limiting frameworks, beliefs, and emotional blocks that keep them stuck doing the same things over and over, while expecting different results.
Have been a personal development coach for 7 years. Trained in Energy Techniques, including Provocative Energy Technique. Considerable, and varied personal life experience, and have created a very practical relationship workshop, complete with effective communication tools. I specialize in hearing and speaking the truth, and it is unimportant in the process whether you like the truth as it exists, or not.
Coach training from Coachville.com school of coaching. Energy techniques training via Emofree.com and EFT Downunder. Life experience and training from many full years of living on this planet. I also have a certain amount of formal education, which, as far as I am concerned, is not necessarily pertinent to this endeavor.
I get "juice" when I witness someone getting clarity and understanding about themselves - and I get even more "juice" when I get the same for myself.
By championing clarity, truth and acceptance I hope to be able to demonstrate how fulfilling and energizing life can be.
No matter how logical or reasonable you think you might be in decision making, there is always an emotional element to your choices. It is that emotional (especially if un-acknowledged) element that is likely causing whatever confusion, and frustration you have in your life.
When you practice clarity, truth and acceptance, it will probably disturb some people in your life. Some people may choose to distance themselves from you, others will want to become closer. So what happens is, people remaining in your life appreciate and value you, and you develop a better relationship with yourself.
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Go to a self-development seminar or workshop. Consult a spiritual mentor of your choice. Hire a coach. Read "Callings" by Greg Levoy http://www.gregglevoy.com/book.html Find sites on the internet that
I'm not offended a bit, and I appreciate honesty. And I believe I answered your question "How can I have my independence back again." The answer to any question or situation like this, where what you
Mike, You can gain your independence again by making a simple choice. Choose between what you have now and what you say you want. You say it is "...hard trying to be myself here." Well, it is hard
Bob, There are three separate questions here, and they are all rather more complex than can be answered effectively in this kind of forum. That being said, here are some thoughts... Since you
Peter, My short answer to your question is "I don't know how you get your motivation back." Truly, this would take more time, more clarity about your situation and thoughts, and more direct communication
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