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a few years?...you're willing to go through this that long?..the only way to get relief is to not need him so much, and instead refocus on your PRESENT life, and the people around you...if you spend the
distance, especially during college years, destroys many relationships..usually 1 person is trying to hang on to how it was, while the other has gotten engrossed in his/her new life; he's become way too
this sounds more like a bad habit than a good relationship; your values, interests, ambitions, completely different; you say coffee & movies...no sex?...my feeling is this is only being held together due
hard to have a healthy relationship seeing someone 4 times a year--it's really more a fantasy; real relationships need frequent in person interaction, where you actually DO things together besides exchanging
how often do you see him?
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