Expertise:  Recognizing, uncovering, and dealing with infidelity are my specialities. I can provide advice on how to uncover infidelity in your relationship, whether or not to confront your spouse/partner, and how to deal with the aftermath. I am able to walk victims through the steps of recovery from an affair which include, but are not limited to, shock, rage, pain, guilt, depression, fear, physical illness, thoughts of revenge, betrayal, letting go, learning to trust again, moving on with or without your partner, becomming a healthier new you, and affair proofing your marriage.

Experience in the area
I have been on all three sides of the cheating triangle, but dealt with it most extensively as the victim of infidelity in my current marriage. I am also a criminal investigator who has worked as a milieu therapist and a probation officer. For more information about my experience discussing relationship issues, please view the media page on my website at http://www.ultimatebetrayal.com/Media.html

Publications
I am the author of Ultimate Betrayal: Recognizing, Uncovering and Dealing with Infidelity (SquareOne Publishers 2005)

Education/Credentials
BA in social welfare from Univ of California at Berkeley. Juris Doctorate from Univ of California Hastings Law.

Past/Present Clients
Numerous, too many to estimate. I was a guest on the Oprah Winfrey Show in May and August 2005, and have been a featured guest expert on the topic of infidelity and relationships for numerous television, radio, newspaper and Internet pieces.