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I can answer all questions relating to staying a virgin. Although I am now not one myself I was a late starter. I know how hard it is to resist temptations and peer pressure. I also know how hard it is to keep a relationship strong while still staying a virgin. I know that sometimes it feels like you’re the only person alive not having sex but you are not alone. I want to help you feel secure in your beliefs whatever they may be. Whether it be religion or your own morals.
I am only 23 but from the age of 13 I have had extreme pressure on me to lose my virginity. I have been friends with very sexual people who have been involved in some strange, strange situations. I eventually lost my virginity when I was 19, to a man that I had been with for 2 years and am still with now. It was under my terms and was a great experience.
Only life experience!
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| Hannah | 02/23/10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | |
| Max | 12/29/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | |
| madhav | 11/04/09 | 7 | 10 | 9 | thanx....that really helps.... |
| Patsy | 10/15/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thanks Kate, I have had this discussion ..... |
| Elizabeth | 08/19/09 | 10 | 7 | 9 |
Hi Hannah, Plenty of people feel exactly the same way as you. I certainly do. I think that everyone should decided to have sex whenever they are ready to. I have never thought that not having sex
Hi Kunal, No your girlfriend is not a virgin. This has nothing to do with the fact that her ex-boyfriend broke her hymen. This can happen for all kinds of reasons like excersize and using tampons
Hi Ann, I'm so sorry it has taken me so long to answer your question. The holidays have been very busy!! I'm also sorry that your boyfriend has put you in this kind of position. I cannot tell you
Hi Max, I'm really sorry to hear how hurt you have been. Some people can be really very cruel. Most people will get hurt like this in their lifetime. Unfortunately it is the way relationships work
Hi Chris, No you cannot lose your virginity this way, you will still be a virgin even if you give or receive oral sex. Virginity is only lost when you have penetrative sex. It is very normal for

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