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I'm good at listening, even better at giving advice.

Virginity does matter! And no sex before marriage is possible, regardless of what your friends, family, or (worst of all) society tell you. It's a choice, like any thing else in life. Not an easy one, so that's why I'm here to help.

I'm happy to answer your questions:
- WHY you should stay a virgin until marriage
- HOW you can stay a virgin until marriage
- HOW to deal with boy or girl friends pushing you to engage in sex
- HOW to deal with friends who push you to engage in sex
- HOW to deal with a family who won't support you in your choice of abstinence

Experience in the area

If you want to know about some thing, you ask an expert, right? If you're climbing a dangerous mountain, whom would you ask for help - another climber that's struggling up hill like you? Or the fella who's been to the top, and lived to tell about it?

I'd be the latter.

As to sex before marriage, "Been there, HAVEN'T done that".

Organizations

Eagle Scout - Boy Scouts of America
Fire Fighter - Whitman County Fire District 1 - Washington State

Education/Credentials

I have several years experience owning and managing two businesses - an Internet Access Provider (www.PalouseNet.com) and a Commercial Art Studio (www.KimballMedia.com). Every day I'm forced to make difficult decisions that will affect my life for years to come - just like the decision to not have sex before marriage will affect you.

Past/Present Clients

See my web sites.

What do you like about this subject?

Virginity held until marriage is important to me. The world is in moral free fall, and staying a virgin until marriage can keep you from being dragged under with every one else. Heck, it may even save your life (no joke).

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

Hoping to help others when they reach that agonizing cross roads where they feel pressure, from with in or with out, to give it up.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

Sleeping together before marriage DOES NOT increase your chances of staying together long term, regardless of what modern society says. "Test driving" your partner actually increases your chances of a break up! No lie, stats from, of all people, the U.S. Federal Government.

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

Contrary to popular belief, people who don't have sex before marriage can be VERY sexual after wards. And vice versa is true, just because some one had sex before marriage does not make them a great lover after you tie the knot.

Two really big lies I just HAD to expose.

There. Now I feel better.

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Recent Answers from Joel Kimball

2011-11-25 Is it wrong to want to be a virgin for life maybe?:

Hello Shayda,    You, my dear, get my Virgin Goddess of the Day award!    Ordinarily pride is a bad thing, but in this instance, you have EVERY THING to be proud of. You are 100% in the right - sex is

2011-10-15 is massage with happy ending wrong?:

Hello Jerry,    You sound like a very moral man, I am encouraged by your concern about this act. I think you should follow your heart and not do this thing, go to this place. Here is why:    First, after

2011-10-10 Im a liar:

Hi Dulce,    First off, you are doing the right thing, staying a virgin until marriage. If you do this one thing, if you can hold out until marriage with another person who shares those same beliefs, you

2011-09-24 Girlfriend and her faith:

You are welcome, Bryan.     "Protection", what ever that is, doesn't work 100% of the time, and any one who tells you other wise is lying to you, my friend. So ANY sex out side of marriage / life long

2011-09-23 Girlfriend and her faith:

Hi Bryan,    I'm not the expert to ask about this, my expertise is helping people KEEP their virginity until they are married / in a life long relationship.     Of course you want to have sex with your

 

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