I'm good at listening, even better at giving advice.
Virginity does matter! And no sex before marriage is possible, regardless of what your friends, family, or (worst of all) society tell you. It's a choice, like any thing else in life. Not an easy one, so that's why I'm here to help.
I'm happy to answer your questions:
- WHY you should stay a virgin until marriage
- HOW you can stay a virgin until marriage
- HOW to deal with boy or girl friends pushing you to engage in sex
- HOW to deal with friends who push you to engage in sex
- HOW to deal with a family who won't support you in your choice of abstinence
If you want to know about some thing, you ask an expert, right? If you're climbing a dangerous mountain, whom would you ask for help - another climber that's struggling up hill like you? Or the fella who's been to the top, and lived to tell about it?
I'd be the latter.
As to sex before marriage, "Been there, HAVEN'T done that".
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I have several years experience owning and managing two businesses - an Internet Access Provider (www.PalouseNet.com) and a Commercial Art Studio (www.KimballMedia.com). Every day I'm forced to make difficult decisions that will affect my life for years to come - just like the decision to not have sex before marriage will affect you.
See my web sites.
Virginity held until marriage is important to me. The world is in moral free fall, and staying a virgin until marriage can keep you from being dragged under with every one else. Heck, it may even save your life (no joke).
Hoping to help others when they reach that agonizing cross roads where they feel pressure, from with in or with out, to give it up.
Sleeping together before marriage DOES NOT increase your chances of staying together long term, regardless of what modern society says. "Test driving" your partner actually increases your chances of a break up! No lie, stats from, of all people, the U.S. Federal Government.
Contrary to popular belief, people who don't have sex before marriage can be VERY sexual after wards. And vice versa is true, just because some one had sex before marriage does not make them a great lover after you tie the knot.
Two really big lies I just HAD to expose.
There. Now I feel better.
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Hello Shay, Are you "crazy"? Are you kidding? NO! Ha ha, if any one is crazy, it's your friends and the guys you've dated. What a crazy world we live in, when an incredible woman like you is sad for
Hi Ebony, What's bad and good is decided by God. God says you should stay a virgin until you marry, or are in a life long committed relationship. So, no, it's not bad at all that you're a virgin
Hi Jordan, you're welcome. I really hope you don't take this the wrong way, but the truth is the truth, and I don't know any other way to say it. No, your bf isn't a great guy. He's immature and deeply
Hi Jordan, happy to be of service! Sorry about the delay in replying, been away from the computer. So, SO glad to hear you're waiting for marriage to have a sexual relationship, regardless of the reason
Hello Keey (is that your last name?), VERY happy to help you. You get my Virgin Goddess of the Month award for holding on until 16. Very cool! So far, so good, don't throw it all away right at the very