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I believe I can address any questions and concerns a person might have.
I have been a clinical psychologist for 32 years. I co-authored a book on relationships, Love Again ~ Creating Relationships Without Blame, with my husband of 40 years, who is also a psychologist. I have taught at UCLA and at Southern Oregon University. I was the psychology columnist for the magazine, Make You Happen! for 1 1/2 years.
I have a doctorate in Counseling Psychology from the University of Southern California.
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| J | 03/22/11 | 10 | 8 | 10 | |
| meghan | 03/19/11 | 10 | 10 | 10 | |
| brandon | 03/17/11 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Great first response! Had a few more ..... |
Hi, Allison - I have no idea what he meant by that. But the very fact that both you and I are wondering, points up an important fact: without judgment or criticism, you have communication problems!
Hi, Luke - I think your inviting her to talk was absolutely the right and best thing you could have done. We can be drawn to someone, like them, even feel love and attraction towards them... but this
Hi, KItty, Here are my thoughts on what you've written... I have to start with a little bit of perspective on what it means to be a person... I think learning and growing doesn't stop at childhood
Hi, Brandon, There's just no way to know what's going on in her, or what will happen. The most you can do is try to educate yourself and be a person you respect being. I'd really try to understand
Dear Brandon, I have worked with a lot of people who have been in a similar situation. IF both of you are willing to learn how to create a happy relationship that both of you feel good about, you could

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