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Expertise

I am happy to answer any questions about social or corporate etiquette as well as questions regarding international protocol. It is important to practice civility. It is contagious.

Experience in the area

I am certified by the Protocol School of Washington as a consultant for corporate etiquette and international protocol. I have been entertaining and giving advise on entertaining for over 40 years.

Publications

Weekly column in Telegraph Journal

Education/Credentials

Graduate of Protocol School of Washington

What do you like about this subject?

I have always been interested in having fun with other people. Civility and respect go a long way in accomplishing this. I have studied this for many years and find that politeness makes for a gentler world.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

I am actually interested in the origins of these traditions. I hope to learn how to help other people appreciate this as well. Learning about other cultures is fascinating.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

When passing condiments or vegetable dishes or bread baskets around the table, do so in a counter clockwise direction.

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

Remember to show respect to those who serve you. That respect will be returned many times over. The reverse is absolutely true too.

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Kathleen03/17/12101010Jay's response to my question is very .....
Jo02/26/12101010Thank you very much.
Khirsten02/09/121010 
Jean02/05/12101010Now I'll know what to do next .....
Jason Russell01/07/12 

Recent Answers from Jay Remer

2012-04-08 Redefining invitations:

Dear Liz,  Forgive me for not answering you sooner, but I have been without Internet for a couple of days. In my view, I think you are making this into a much bigger issue than necessary. I am not sure

2012-03-12 Re: A cross in neighbor's yard:

Dear Kathleen,  Thanks for asking this interesting question. To begin with, the cross in your neighbor's yard is likely very personal and therefore the subject should be approached with great care and

2012-02-26 Your opinion please:

Dear Jo,  You are in the right here, 100%. You can never exemplify good manners too much, unless of course you have none to begin with. Your stepmother is likely feeling guilty for not having taught this

2012-02-08 60th Wedding Anniversary:

Dear Khirsten,  Include the names of all grandchildren or the total number. The fact that one grandchild is deceased does not change the fact that they are  grandparents to 8 grandchildren. This announcement

2012-02-05 Party Gifts:

Dear Jean,   Thanks for asking this good question. If you are invited to someone's house for a party, assume they will provide the food. If the invitation is by phone, you can ask if there is anything

 

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