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Social Etiquette and Good Manners/Expert Profile
Expertise
I am happy to answer any questions about social or corporate etiquette as well as questions regarding international protocol. It is important to practice civility. It is contagious.
Experience in the area
I am certified by the Protocol School of Washington as a consultant for corporate etiquette and international protocol. I have been entertaining and giving advise on entertaining for over 40 years.
Publications
Weekly column in Telegraph Journal
Education/Credentials
Graduate of Protocol School of Washington
What do you like about this subject?
I have always been interested in having fun with other people. Civility and respect go a long way in accomplishing this. I have studied this for many years and find that politeness makes for a gentler world.
What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?
I am actually interested in the origins of these traditions. I hope to learn how to help other people appreciate this as well. Learning about other cultures is fascinating.
Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:
When passing condiments or vegetable dishes or bread baskets around the table, do so in a counter clockwise direction.
Something controversial or provocative about this subject
Remember to show respect to those who serve you. That respect will be returned many times over. The reverse is absolutely true too.
Average Ratings
Recent Reviews from Users
K = Knowledgeability C = Clarity of Response P = Politeness| User | Date | K | C | P | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Jean | 02/05/12 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Now I'll know what to do next ..... |
| Jason Russell | 01/07/12 | 6 | 7 | 7 | |
| glenda | 12/28/11 | 4 | 9 | 10 | |
| bud | 12/03/11 | 10 | 10 | 10 | |
| Mildred | 10/22/11 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you for your answer, Jay. I ..... |
Recent Answers from Jay Remer
2012-02-05 Party Gifts:
Dear Jean, Thanks for asking this good question. If you are invited to someone's house for a party, assume they will provide the food. If the invitation is by phone, you can ask if there is anything
2012-01-25 parents:
Dear Cynde, Please excuse my tardy response. I am on the road and easily distracted. You have a big issue because it has been brewing for years. However, it's never to late to teach an old dog new tricks
2012-01-21 Male friend constantly visiting:
Dear Cynthia, Thanks for asking this good question. This man does sound lonely and I'm sure he enjoys your mother's company. However, he is being disrespectful of her privacy. I would recommend that she
2011-11-10 Addressing International physicians:
Hello Jessica, I apologize for the tardy response, but I have been out of town. In the English language, medical doctors are addressed in writing as Dr., as in Dr. Sarah Smith or Dr. Bill Jones. In other
2011-10-19 Changing a Shirt in Public:
Dear Mildred, I did answer this question, but only recently. I do apologize for the delay. I have been on the road. Let me know if my answer helps. Feel free to email me directly: jay@etiquetteguy.com
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