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Expertise

Proper manners with friends,family,colleagues,neighbors and everyone else you know.

Experience in the area

I have been an etiquette expert teaching and consulting on the subject worldwide since 1983. I started and serve as the Executive Director of the International Society of Protocol & Etiquette Professionals and am considered a leader in the field of etiquette and protocol training and execution. I edited "Etiquette for Dummies" and have recently written "Lett's Talk - Everyday Etiquette Dilemmas and What to Do about Them". My book, "That's So Annoying:An Etiquette Expert on the World's Most Irritating Habits And What To Do About Them" was published in 2009 and is available wherever books are sold. I taught the Business Protocol class to Master's level students at the George Washington University, Washington, DC for seven years I served as Chief of Protocol for MCI Telecommunications for three years.

Organizations

International Society of Protocol & Etiquette Professionals, ASTD, PCMA, National Speakers Association

Publications

I have been quoted over 700 times in the past 5 years worldwide. Publications include Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, Washington Times, NY Times, Washington Business Journal, USA Today, Associated Press, London Times, Newsweek Japan edition, Newsweek US edition and many many more.

Education/Credentials

I am a Certified Etiquette Professional (CEP) and Certified Protocol Professional (CPP) earned by examination through ISPEP. I have a Master's degree in hospitality law and undergrad degrees in Restaurant & Hotel Management and Public Relations/Interpersonal Communications from Purdue University.

Awards and Honors

Who's Who Worldwide,Who's Who of American Women, Distinguished Darden Professor (Purdue University).

Past/Present Clients

World Bank, United Nations,US Dept. of State, US. Dept. of the Army, Pentagon, Barclays Global Investors,Accenture,Fox News, MSNBC, CNN, The White House, Dept. of State, AT&T,Bank of America,American Association of Clinical Pharmacies,Ritz Carlton Hotels, Hilton Hotels, Marriott Hotels,Starwood Hotels,and many more.


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Kelley05/23/12101010tysvm! You've given me great hope that .....
Cyndi05/17/12101010Thanks so very much! Perfect solution to .....
Mark05/06/12101010Thank you very much Cynthia for your .....
Maraye05/02/12101010Thank you soooo much!! Great advice!! I .....
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Recent Answers from Cynthia W. Lett

2012-05-22 How do we deal w/a bad neighor relationship my dad started?:

Dear Kelley:  My suggestion is to send a letter (return receipt requested through the post office to be sure he received it) to your neighbor that in a very matter of fact but not confrontational way states

2012-05-17 family at the lake for the weekend:

Dear Cyndi:  Since proper etiquette allows the host to set the rules in their own home, my suggestion is to set "new" rules.  Prior to the next family weekend, send out the "new" rules of the lake house

2012-05-16 Event ticket etiquette:

Dear Aly:  I am sorry that you have such unreliable friends but now that you know this, you need to protect yourself.  In the future, after you take the headcount, collect the cash from each one who said

2012-05-09 academic cedentials:

Dear James:  Etiquette doesn't allow for redundancy so the proper way is Mary Jones, Ph.D.  When addressing someone with a doctorate they are Dr. Mary Jones but only in the company of others in the field

2012-05-07 Group invitations:

Dear Mark:  The best response to Ms. P would be to put it back on yourself and say, "I did hear from Mr.Q that a group of your friends were gathering to celebrate your birthday but I don't feel comfortable

 

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