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Expertise
Questions related to Swinging i.e. Why did you choose to become a swinger, He/She wants to but I have doubts, How to begin/get started, What is the purpose of swinging, Why would you become a swinger, Should we/shouldn't we, Rules (Are/Aren't they needed, What should they be, What should be non-negotiable, What can be compromised, What to do if rules are ignored or broken), House vs. private parties, Resources to locate other swingers, What does it mean to take one for the team Questions we can't answer: Any alternative sexual questions other than swinging, i.e. Bestiality, Gang Banging, anything to do with minors, B/D or S&M, toilet games, etc. We also don't feel proficient in answering in depth relationship questions, we are not marriage/relationship counselors, if we receive a question that falls into that category we will refer you to seek professional help.
Experience in the area
Over 10 years in the Lifestyle, numerous events & encounters (some pleasant & enjoyable and others that were less than)
Organizations
NASCA, Good Vibrations, C4P
Education/Credentials
Both of us are college educated professionals.
Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:
The divorce rate in the swinger LifeStyle is only 7% compared to the national average of 51%.
Average Ratings
Recent Reviews from Users
K = Knowledgeability C = Clarity of Response P = Politeness| User | Date | K | C | P | Comments |
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| Whit | 10/09/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you. That helps alot. I will ..... |
| Don | 09/22/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you for taking the time to ..... |
| Kels | 09/18/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you. I very much appreciate your ..... |
| Gus | 09/18/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you for your rapid answer, it ..... |
| John | 09/05/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 |
Recent Answers from Analisa
2009-10-09 Married Couple:
Whit, THe only thing I can tell you is to work through any issues BEFORE bringing someone else in. Once you have brought someone else in keep the communication between VERY honest, constant and open
2009-10-08 Married Couple:
Whit, My best recommendation for the two of you is to join one of my favorite sites for swingers (clubforeplay.com referral #13442) and build a profile with all your preferences and then search the
2009-10-03 How to start?:
Saman, If you are talking about how to get started as swingers I would suggest you go to the NASCA.com website and read the FAQ section. There is a lot of good information there. I don't know how
2009-09-30 hpv:
Lynn, Have you thought about using protection? Also once you have HPV, then even if you get treated for it, your husband can give it back to you. Cervical cancer is very dangerous and can lead
2009-09-28 no subject:
Melissa, If you have even the slightest doubt and feel/think" "should I postpone them a little until husband is ready (I'm worried it may not work out then cause he might not be back for a while)?"
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