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Hot sauce won't injure him permanently but it is quite severe. As long as he does not swallow feces he will be fine, swallowing urine will not harm him as it is basically inert and sterile. Use sterile
You are already a bit in the extreme and if you keep up the way you are going, he will learn to endure more than you can give. I'd suggest you visit some toy sites for ideas and devices such as www.extremerestraints
If he's hard-wired into it as are most, you can save yourself a lot of grief by ending the relationship. You are vanilla and he's into something you'll never understand or want to participate in and it's
Tanning "leatherizes" the skin which makes it less supple and more prone to damage. You can put alcohol on but lemon juice has a lot of sugar in it--not good for wounds and vinegar doesn't have a lot of
You allow her to tan? Use of a surgical scalpel will definitely minimize scarring because the blade is extremely sharp, however, anything deeper than superficial is going to leave a scar--even GOD leaves
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