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I have been in the BDSM scene for 25 years. I am a prodomme with a specialty of medical play. I give demonstrations on safe, sane and consensual play in the area of play: sounds, needle play, medical,saline infusions,sterile procedure,fisting,fire,knife and RACK edge play.
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I have a Master's degree in Nursing
You allow her to tan? Use of a surgical scalpel will definitely minimize scarring because the blade is extremely sharp, however, anything deeper than superficial is going to leave a scar--even GOD leaves
Stay FAR away from the spine. You can leave the needles in place for pretty much as long as you feel like it, but make sure you push a small cork on to the end of it to keep from sticking yourself. After
You should really be using sterile hypodermic needles that come in SIZES that increase pain rather than what you are using because the medical grade needles are designed to minimize tissue damage and nerve
It's a technique that they teach people that complete an MSN degree--like I did. I give demos at group parties to show people how to do this safely; it's not something you can read about and learn to
You can buy these books at www.Amazon.com and you will find them helpful. The Loving Dominant BDSM 101 Screw the Roses Send me the Thorns These are written from a male dom female sub point of view
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