Anything related to BDSM or Master/slave relationships or activities.
See: www.KinkMastery.com I live 24/7 Master/slave lifestyle and have since 2002 both as Master and slave. My Owner and I present and do "weekend intensives" internationally and at BDSM conferences practically every month.
Masters And slaves Together (MAsT) National Leather Association - International (NLA-I) National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF)
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PhD, Urban Education Policy Studies with a minor in criminology, U of Wisconsin, Madison. EdM, Boston University with specialty in urban education Presented 80+ BDSM weekend conferences worldwide since 2007.
Pantheon of Leather Community Choice - Man, 2008
The M/s structure enables a couple to grow in many ways: in spirituality, in knowledge, and in wisdom. By focusing on our mutually-agreed goals, the couple can move as one. This has not been my experience in my marriages (17 and 14 years). The fact that the slave is committed to serving and obeying makes a profound difference.
Ah, one never stops learning until you're dead. I view my writings (and activities such as volunteering on this site) as a way of giving back to the community of kinksters and Leatherfolk.
The fantasy view of a Master/slave structure is that the slave's sole purpose is to serve Master. While largely true, many miss the point that the Master is in service to the relationship. Master's primary responsibility is to the total wellbeing of the slave(s). This takes serious and ongoing planning and work. Much harder than the average marriage.
I distinguish between the "Leather" approach to Master/slave versus the BDSM approach to Master/slave.
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Hi, Daniel -- An exciting new experience, to be sure. Well... I'd suggest you start with a book called: "Master/slave Mastery: Updated handbook of theory and practice." That will give you the theory
Hi, Elisha... VERY sorry to hear of this progression. It sounds to me as though you both had a great connection in the beginning, but as the "three-month crazies" (as Jay Wiseman calls them) wore
Hi, James... Thanks for writing. You might suggest that your friend consider reading two books that my partner and I have written for people with zero to one year of BDSM experience and want to learn
Hi, Jillian, thanks for writing. Sure... Walk slightly behind him, either on his right or left side. Open doors for him. HE will walk ahead of you into restaurants. If you want to push it some,
Hi, Georgia... I DO apologize for this tardy reply. I completely forgot that I had this question pending. It's hard for someone to tell you how to please another unless they know quite a bit about
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