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I can answer questions about how to know if this lifestyle is right for you. How to be the best slave you can be. How to know if a Master or Mistress is right for you. Dealing with the emotional pain of a breakup in the D/s relationship. What questions to ask a potential owner. What it means to accept a collar. How to request release from a collar. Learning to trust.
I have been a slave for over 2 years. I started knowing nothing at all and have built on this over that time. So my experience is through actual experience.
I have a bachelor's degree in sociology.
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| Jen | 11/07/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | thanks so much! i now realize my ..... |
| Chris | 11/06/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you very much indeed for the ..... |
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| Rachel | 09/29/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Eirene, Thank you so much for taking ..... |
Hello Annmarie, You do not mention if this is to be a "play" punishment or a very real punishment. If something feels good that would be considered a pleasure and not "real" punishment. In the vanilla
Hello Chris, I suggest first of all you need to decide how important the BDSM lifestyle is to you. Is it just bedroom play or is it something 24/7 you are looking for? Then you need to have a heart
Hello Jen, Thank you for your questions. First of all welcome into a lifestyle that has so many rewards in store for you as you continue. No you are *not* crazy for all the thoughts and feelings you
Hello Amy, You leave out so much that it is hard for me to answer specifically. You do not mention what the training is so that I am confused about what process you are ready to get started with.
Hello Bri, The first thing I want to say is I am so sorry you are hurting this way. A healthy D/s relationship actually feels good emotionally not bad. Even through the intensity of the relationship
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