BDSM/Expert Profile

Expertise

I will answer any questions concern the lifestyle but I am more Pharoanic than Gorean bent. I may annoy a few because I do dive into the history and psychology of this lifestyle in many of my answers. I have a partner a Femdom Mistress who shares my experiences and assets, as I hers. Also belonging to a couple groups in Europa, we tend to share information and discuss many of the topics frequently. I will focus on the core items around, training and relationship management for those that are interested.

Experience in the area

I have been involved in the lifestyle since being introduced to it by my father at the age of 13. He was a master in the 50's to 80's but predated the popularity of Gor, and was Pharoanic in nature. I owned my own slaves since my early 20's. I have usually been part of a poly household and had a number relations with Domtrix who shared my assets, or with other Master's where we pooled resources. For about 6 years three of us ran a BDSM club in Prague until it was "acquired" by the Russian "businessmen". I do not hold any moral taboos about this lifestyle and at one time or another have experience or seen everything imaginable.

Organizations

I belong to a number of local clubs, and a loose association (not formal) of a bout 15 masters and mistresses here in Western Europe who share experiences, training and some exchange trade assets.

Publications

I have not published on BDSM under my name.

Education/Credentials

Not relevant although I do have a DCS and DT but I am not Christian so have no moral dilemmas with this lifestyle.

Awards and Honors

Not applicable

Past/Present Clients

Not relevant

What do you like about this subject?

This lifestyle is a cornucopia of experiences far from the field of what is consider the "norm". Yet, it is one of the few lifestyles that based on total honesty and trust. It is the nature of total trust that underpins the relationships, and this requires an essential commitment to total honesty.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

Every day brings new experiences, and challenges. I believe having a mature poly relationship, there is always new things to learn for both Master and slave. To stop learning and growing is to wither and die. The one thing as time marches on the limits all of us have simply fall away.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

The biggest thing for me is that this is not about the sex, or the discipline or even the kink. It is a near spiritual existence because of the total commitment on both sides. There is a emotional state that can be reach in much of the activities (I hate the word play because it implies a lack of seriousness or this is just a game).

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

Too many of us claim limits to appease the social norms even today.It is the freedom from these norms that gives this lifestyle if open acceptance of all things in the human condition.