BDSM/Expert Profile

Expertise

My experience is in the D/s,BDSM lifestyle, I have been a member of several support groups both in person and online. I can also answer questions on basic psychology of people in the lifestyle.

Experience in the area

I have knowledge in Flogging,canning, single tail, basic bondage,dragon tail, humiliation, knife play, cupping, forced orgasm, 24/7 lifestyle, bull quirt, fire play (includes fire flogging), Temporary branding, rough body play, wax, and finding local BDSM support groups.

Organizations

I am the founder of the L.A.K.E. group in fargo North Dakota, phoenix_master on www.fetlife.com. I was also one of the original founders of the paradox group in Louisville KY, NLA-Columbus Ohio, CORDS (Central Ohio Real-life Dominance and Submission), and BDSM instructor for the St Cloud kinksters in St. Cloud Minnesota and the Grand Forks Training Academy in Grand Forks ND.

Publications

I have spoken at different venues on BDSM.

Education/Credentials

Finishing my degree in business.

Past/Present Clients

Instructor for both St. Cloud Kinksters, Grand Forks Training Academy

What do you like about this subject?

I like the fact that TRUE BDSM is much more than just kinky sex. It's a way of life that's based on love, trust, and respect. Most people in the lifestyle are good highly educated people, and they have to hide it from the vanilla (none BDSM people).

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

I hope to bring a better understanding of the lifestyle to the general public, and help them understand that the lifestyle isn't a bad thing like the media as made it out to be.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

That each and every person, dom or sub does things differently. If someone says to you that they have the only right true way you better have some red flags going up.