BDSM/Expert Profile

Miss-L

U.S.
On Vacation
returns 06/10/2012
Expertise

I can answer questions related to Mistresses/Dommes and their relationships with subs and slaves. I can answer questions about different fetishes, give advice, or just explain overall BDSM practices and protocols.

Experience in the area

I've been a Mistress for 6 years and have had about a dozen subs and slaves. Before becoming a Mistress and diving into BDSM I was a live-in slave for 6 months to really cement my role as dominant. I didn't want to assume because I had a dominant personality that I would automatically be the one holding the whip.

Organizations

I'm part of the local TNG and frequent the BDSM clubs and parties in the areas.

Publications

www.mundanetoms.blogspot.com

Education/Credentials

I have no educational credentials in this area, only years of firsthand experience.

Awards and Honors

I've had my poetry and short stories published. I also write my own blog.

What do you like about this subject?

What isn't there to like about BDSM? The beauty of it is, there's a little something for everyone.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

I hope that I can provide clear and useful knowledge and advice to those who are unable to find it elsewhere.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

There's literally a kink for everything...and if you can't find it, then you're the pioneer of it!

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

It's often a misconception that BDSM is all whips and chains and powerful men cowering in corners under the helm of a leather clad lady...ahh the stuff of fantasies. In reality, it's a lot of regular folks just having a good time, in whatever way that means to them.

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Randi01/23/12101010Great answer, but also great questions! They .....
Brian12/15/111010I am exceedingly happy to have heard .....
lambo12/12/1110thank You :) its a big step .....
Artis12/09/11101010Thanks for your great input and links!
ebony12/03/11101010 

Recent Answers from Miss-L

2012-01-19 advice for a novice…Domme? Switch?:

Hi Randi,    I'm always glad when I see people stepping into the BDSM scene with the desire to educate themselves. Many people just jump in head first and may experience certain difficulties due to their

2012-01-16 collar:

Hello Ladyrider,    Thanks for writing---I think you've pretty much answered your own question.    "I know he is married and I don't care about that."    If you aren't bothered by the fact that he is married

2012-01-07 Confused:

Hi Josee,    Two red flags go up immediately after reading your question.    1) You describe yourself as "young"    2) You did not feel this way with a previous BDSM relationship.    I am not going to

2011-12-20 Someone may be taking this too far:

Hello,    I've read your question carefully. Honestly I can say this is a matter of opinion on whether you should alert someone. In my opinion I think it is her choice on how she raises her child. When

2011-12-10 taking that first leap...:

Hello Lost Lamb,    Thanks for writing me. I wouldn't say you're "lost" so much as wanting some reassurance. I am glad that you understand this decision would be a big change and would have very real consequences

 

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