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I can answer questions related to Mistresses/Dommes and their relationships with subs and slaves. I can answer questions about different fetishes, give advice, or just explain overall BDSM practices and protocols.
I've been a Mistress for 6 years and have had about a dozen subs and slaves. Before becoming a Mistress and diving into BDSM I was a live-in slave for 6 months to really cement my role as dominant. I didn't want to assume because I had a dominant personality that I would automatically be the one holding the whip.
I'm part of the local TNG and frequent the BDSM clubs and parties in the areas.
www.mundanetoms.blogspot.com
I have no educational credentials in this area, only years of firsthand experience.
I've had my poetry and short stories published. I also write my own blog.
What isn't there to like about BDSM? The beauty of it is, there's a little something for everyone.
I hope that I can provide clear and useful knowledge and advice to those who are unable to find it elsewhere.
There's literally a kink for everything...and if you can't find it, then you're the pioneer of it!
It's often a misconception that BDSM is all whips and chains and powerful men cowering in corners under the helm of a leather clad lady...ahh the stuff of fantasies. In reality, it's a lot of regular folks just having a good time, in whatever way that means to them.
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| Randi | 01/23/12 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Great answer, but also great questions! They ..... |
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| Artis | 12/09/11 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thanks for your great input and links! |
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Hi Randi, I'm always glad when I see people stepping into the BDSM scene with the desire to educate themselves. Many people just jump in head first and may experience certain difficulties due to their
Hello Ladyrider, Thanks for writing---I think you've pretty much answered your own question. "I know he is married and I don't care about that." If you aren't bothered by the fact that he is married
Hi Josee, Two red flags go up immediately after reading your question. 1) You describe yourself as "young" 2) You did not feel this way with a previous BDSM relationship. I am not going to
Hello, I've read your question carefully. Honestly I can say this is a matter of opinion on whether you should alert someone. In my opinion I think it is her choice on how she raises her child. When
Hello Lost Lamb, Thanks for writing me. I wouldn't say you're "lost" so much as wanting some reassurance. I am glad that you understand this decision would be a big change and would have very real consequences
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