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I can answer questions related to Mistresses/Dommes and their relationships with subs and slaves. I can answer questions about different fetishes, give advice, explain BDSM and dungeon etiquette or just explain overall BDSM practices and protocols as I've learned. I can also help with creative ideas related to kinky scenes, role-plays, punishments, or rewards.

Experience in the area

I've been into BDSM for about 10 years and I've a Mistress for 8 years and have had my fair share of subs and slaves. I have experience with what it's like to be on both sides of the paddle.

Organizations

I'm part of the local TNG and Black Rose, and several FemDom groups. I also frequent the BDSM clubs and parties in the surrounding areas.

Publications

www.mundanetoms.blogspot.com

Education/Credentials

I have no educational credentials in this area, only years of firsthand experience and knowledge gained through reading, workshops, and listening to ideas from other individuals I deem more experienced in certain BDSM areas.

Awards and Honors

I write my own blog.

What do you like about this subject?

What isn't there to like about BDSM? The beauty of it is, there's a little something for everyone.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

I hope that I can provide clear and useful knowledge and advice to those who are unable to find it elsewhere.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

There's literally a kink for everything...and if you can't find it, then you're the pioneer of it!

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

It's often a misconception that BDSM is all whips and chains and powerful men cowering in corners under the helm of a leather clad lady...ahh the stuff of fantasies. In reality, it's a lot of regular folks just having a good time, in whatever way that means to them.

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Recent Answers from Natali Noir

2016-11-11 Relationship:

Hi Melanie,    My apologies for the delay.     First and foremost let me say a lot of BDSM revolves around trust, honesty, and integrity. To each their own but if I had been with someone for years only

2016-10-24 Relationships:

Hello,    If I understand your question, you're asking if you are able to befriend people in the BDSM scene rather than have to pay for services, presumably domination services? If that is your question

2016-09-26 fisting to the next level?:

Hi Gus,    It sounds like you currently exploring the safest way possible, by listening to your partner.    I can't tell you what she'll enjoy or not enjoy, nor can I guess at how she'll react because

2016-08-04 CBT:

Ooh CBT! It sounds so deliciously devious doesn't it?    The biggest thing to worry about with CBT is blood flow. Cutting off circulation is a lot of what the play involves.     Dull and painful aching

2016-07-27 sub, dom:

Hi Naomie,    If you truly want to submit as you say, then tell him. It doesn't have to be a grand gesture to get his attention. But I would suggest writing down what you're feeling, no barriers and tell

 

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