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I can answer questions related to Mistresses/Dommes and their relationships with subs and slaves. I can answer questions about different fetishes, give advice, explain BDSM and dungeon etiquette or just explain overall BDSM practices and protocols as I've learned. I can also help with creative ideas related to kinky scenes, role-plays, punishments, or rewards.

Experience in the area

I've been into BDSM for about 10 years and I've a Mistress for 8 years and have had my fair share of subs and slaves. I have experience with what it's like to be on both sides of the paddle.

Organizations

I'm part of the local TNG and Black Rose, and several FemDom groups. I also frequent the BDSM clubs and parties in the surrounding areas.

Publications

www.mundanetoms.blogspot.com

Education/Credentials

I have no educational credentials in this area, only years of firsthand experience and knowledge gained through reading, workshops, and listening to ideas from other individuals I deem more experienced in certain BDSM areas.

Awards and Honors

I write my own blog.

What do you like about this subject?

What isn't there to like about BDSM? The beauty of it is, there's a little something for everyone.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

I hope that I can provide clear and useful knowledge and advice to those who are unable to find it elsewhere.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

There's literally a kink for everything...and if you can't find it, then you're the pioneer of it!

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

It's often a misconception that BDSM is all whips and chains and powerful men cowering in corners under the helm of a leather clad lady...ahh the stuff of fantasies. In reality, it's a lot of regular folks just having a good time, in whatever way that means to them.

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Recent Answers from Natali Noir

2017-03-08 New & could use some ideas:

Hi Just,    Welcome to the wonderful world of chastity play. I've found that a website called Chastity Mansion helped me when I first started years ago.    If you're looking for ideas for LDR play there

2017-02-16 bdsm torture:

Hello there,  Torture can be defined as many things such as mental, emotional, etc. But since you only mentioned pain, I'll assume you mean physical only.    In regards to that I would suggest that any

2017-02-12 suggestions:

Don't do caning.    Haha, that's semi-serious. Caning is meant to hurt and remind you of the literal position you put yourself in. At best I can suggest to take a painkiller before play to decrease discomfort

2016-12-30 i like to wallow in mud:

Hello there,    I've met lots of people who enjoying being various animals from puppies and cats to dragons, mermaids, pigs, snakes and more!    I think it's a unique kink that really requires a great

2016-11-11 Relationship:

Hi Melanie,    My apologies for the delay.     First and foremost let me say a lot of BDSM revolves around trust, honesty, and integrity. To each their own but if I had been with someone for years only

 

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