I can answer questions related to Mistresses/Dommes and their relationships with subs and slaves. I can answer questions about different fetishes, give advice, explain BDSM and dungeon etiquette or just explain overall BDSM practices and protocols as I've learned. I can also help with creative ideas related to kinky scenes, role-plays, punishments, or rewards.
I've been into BDSM for about 10 years and I've a Mistress for 8 years and have had my fair share of subs and slaves. I have experience with what it's like to be on both sides of the paddle.
I'm part of the local TNG and Black Rose, and several FemDom groups. I also frequent the BDSM clubs and parties in the surrounding areas.
I have no educational credentials in this area, only years of firsthand experience and knowledge gained through reading, workshops, and listening to ideas from other individuals I deem more experienced in certain BDSM areas.
I write my own blog.
What isn't there to like about BDSM? The beauty of it is, there's a little something for everyone.
I hope that I can provide clear and useful knowledge and advice to those who are unable to find it elsewhere.
There's literally a kink for everything...and if you can't find it, then you're the pioneer of it!
It's often a misconception that BDSM is all whips and chains and powerful men cowering in corners under the helm of a leather clad lady...ahh the stuff of fantasies. In reality, it's a lot of regular folks just having a good time, in whatever way that means to them.
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Hi Gus, It sounds like you currently exploring the safest way possible, by listening to your partner. I can't tell you what she'll enjoy or not enjoy, nor can I guess at how she'll react because
Ooh CBT! It sounds so deliciously devious doesn't it? The biggest thing to worry about with CBT is blood flow. Cutting off circulation is a lot of what the play involves. Dull and painful aching
Hi Naomie, If you truly want to submit as you say, then tell him. It doesn't have to be a grand gesture to get his attention. But I would suggest writing down what you're feeling, no barriers and tell
Hi John, It sounds like you definitely have a fetish for CFNM (Clothed Female Naked Male) and possibly being objectified. I always think it's great when kinksters get to try out their kinks. Your question
Hello Sandra Thanks for explaining your situation. I think you inadvertently answered your own question. Clearly you have proven that you aren't necessarily a submissive just because you're sexually
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