BDSM/Expert Profile

Expertise

From simple curiosity to elaborate scene set up and planning as well as technique, gear, link, advice, opinion, facts and reference among other colleagues. Social, spiritual, romantic and emotional issues related to BDSM Bondage being my focus and specialty, but love the sensual aspects of these arts.

Experience in the area

15 years researching, reading, interacting, dating and playing in the BDSM lifestyle actively as a Dom, used to be sub.
BDSM, Bondage, gags, blindfolds, knots, ropes, restrains and roleplaying

Publications

N/A

Education/Credentials

Engineering & Military

Awards and Honors

Military and respect from my peers in the BDSM community

What do you like about this subject?

It diversity, scope, width, erotisism, sensuality and fun. BDSM is one of those broad defintions such as LIFE or FAMILY. In each case it is differnt for everyone and it is what you make of it, yet with certain things in common to make everyone happy on theor own way as it suits each person.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

Go deeper, more versatile, and master more areas. Learn

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

The diversity of situation, activities, games, kinks and fetishes in BDSM is indeed Vast

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

BDSM might give you more pleasure than food, or sports; and possibly just as addictive...or MORE

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Recent Answers from Oscar G.

2010-10-21 How to "claim" an available slave:

Hi Frankie:    The claiming per se involves two parties. You and the claimed one. But i believe in some circles it is called "being under consideration" , "being protected by", "under training" or "protected

2010-10-05 degradation a meaninful thing testing my trust?:

Hi Lila:    Sorry for the delay to get to you.   But your question elicits a reply immediately.   In this case being your first relationship BDSM or vanilla otherwise, can be messy and confusing and have

2010-09-12 Long distance Punishments.:

Ms Kitty:    Apologies for the delay since i was out of country and incommunicado.  With long distance relationships you come to that barrier often enough. One has to be extra highly creative to overcome

2010-08-24 Improving My Relationship With My Fiance:

Dear Janet:    The issue here it is him and his mind. The only way I can suggest different ideas or point of view is to make him notice that everything between 2 willing adults is valid and it is a playful

2010-08-22 Spanking Edge Play/ Punishment Spanking:

Hi Ms Kitty:   The trick here is pacing and slow build up. Ramping up intensity slowly is key to achieve that wanted subspace. But also it is feeling that slow burn of enjoying the situation, not only

 

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