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From simple curiosity to elaborate scene set up and planning as well as technique, gear, link, advice, opinion, facts and reference among other colleagues. Social, spiritual, romantic and emotional issues related to BDSM Bondage being my focus and specialty, but love the sensual aspects of these arts.

Experience in the area

15 years researching, reading, interacting, dating and playing in the BDSM lifestyle actively as a Dom, used to be sub.
BDSM, Bondage, gags, blindfolds, knots, ropes, restrains and roleplaying

Publications

N/A

Education/Credentials

Engineering & Military

Awards and Honors

Military and respect from my peers in the BDSM community

What do you like about this subject?

It diversity, scope, width, erotisism, sensuality and fun. BDSM is one of those broad defintions such as LIFE or FAMILY. In each case it is differnt for everyone and it is what you make of it, yet with certain things in common to make everyone happy on theor own way as it suits each person.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

Go deeper, more versatile, and master more areas. Learn

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

The diversity of situation, activities, games, kinks and fetishes in BDSM is indeed Vast

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

BDSM might give you more pleasure than food, or sports; and possibly just as addictive...or MORE

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Recent Answers from Oscar G.

2009-11-20 Confused:

Hi Mandy: Depending on the time that has passed since you last talked and the intensity/quality of the interaction you had before. Real life canget in the way of dating. But also find out why the delay

2009-11-05 BDSM:

Hi Rita: Well the sky is the limit as to what you can ask. As long as limits are respected. But what specifically should be asked? Depends on if you want to be pleased or you want to please him. Depends

2009-10-27 sub- slave:

Hi Amal: Since you have internet access, it would be better for you for people who are already in a lady that is already interested in domination , feet and single. I really recommend looking online

2009-10-14 training sub:

Hi James: Training and "breaking" is a relative concept. It is based on her willingness to go along with your ideas and activities and your creativity and desires (also her needs and wants too). So

2009-10-13 Daddy Doms:

Dear Dana: Sadly yes. It IS possible that you just don't have the same definition of love. And i do not think everybody does. And only those who have a similar definition can actually get along. Actually

 

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