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From simple curiosity to elaborate scene set up and planning as well as technique, gear, link, advice, opinion, facts and reference among other colleagues. Social, spiritual, romantic and emotional issues related to BDSM Bondage being my focus and specialty, but love the sensual aspects of these arts.
15 years researching, reading, interacting, dating and playing in the BDSM lifestyle actively as a Dom, used to be sub.
BDSM, Bondage, gags, blindfolds, knots, ropes, restrains and roleplaying
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Military and respect from my peers in the BDSM community
It diversity, scope, width, erotisism, sensuality and fun. BDSM is one of those broad defintions such as LIFE or FAMILY. In each case it is differnt for everyone and it is what you make of it, yet with certain things in common to make everyone happy on theor own way as it suits each person.
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| Rita | 11/21/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | This is exactly what I was looking ..... |
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| Dana | 10/16/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | I sincerely appreciate your time spent in ..... |
| james | 10/15/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | thanks very much for your help!! |
Hi Mandy: Depending on the time that has passed since you last talked and the intensity/quality of the interaction you had before. Real life canget in the way of dating. But also find out why the delay
Hi Rita: Well the sky is the limit as to what you can ask. As long as limits are respected. But what specifically should be asked? Depends on if you want to be pleased or you want to please him. Depends
Hi Amal: Since you have internet access, it would be better for you for people who are already in a lady that is already interested in domination , feet and single. I really recommend looking online
Hi James: Training and "breaking" is a relative concept. It is based on her willingness to go along with your ideas and activities and your creativity and desires (also her needs and wants too). So
Dear Dana: Sadly yes. It IS possible that you just don't have the same definition of love. And i do not think everybody does. And only those who have a similar definition can actually get along. Actually
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