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arani_CsA

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I am available to answer any questions you might have about Master/slave relationships. While my Master and I are Gorean, I have intimate knowledge of other forms of consensual slavery as well. I can offer advice in the areas of learning to come to an understanding of one's slave nature, learning how to best please one's owner, and other problems that come up in the day-to-day life of a slave.

Experience in the area

I was collared by my Master on May 6, 2000, and on Nov. 8, 2003 became his wife as well. Prior to that time, I wore the collars of two other men.

Publications

My website, which can be located at http://www.geocities.com/dancer_of_gor/index.html

Education/Credentials

I have an advanced degree in the health professions. In addition, I have been a slave for over ten years, and during that time was trained by three different Masters with regards to slavery in general as well as how to serve them in particular. One of these Masters required me to train the other slaves in his chain.

Awards and Honors

At one time, I was given the rather dubious honor of being voted the "Sexiest Slave" in Yahoo Gor. I don't take this too seriously, and don't encourage anyone else to do so either.

What do you like about this subject?

It was not until I discovered my slavery that I became completely fulfilled in this life.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

Slavery is a journey, not a destination. I will never cease to learn, whether it be at the feet of my Master, or by the grace of others I may encounter in this life.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

Many who are involved in Master/slave relationships do not engage in S/m play, and prefer a more service-oriented lifestyle. Play of this sort is more of a shared recreational activity for us, and does not define who we are.

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

Many believe that, once the slave consents to become owned, she gives up all rights to further consent. Speaking strictly for myself, my slavery to my beloved Master is so much a part of who I am that I cannot envisage ever being anything else. No matter what He might do to me.

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Recent Answers from arani_CsA

2009-07-26 I want something I'm not sure I can have:

Hello... I'm glad my earlier response was of some help to you. I hope I can help you continue to sort out your situation, and find some happiness and fulfillment in your life. Unfortunately, what

2009-07-25 pleasing my master:

Hello... Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are looking for. It is certainly quite possible to maintain a long-distance M/s relationship, although

2009-07-25 I want something I'm not sure I can have:

Hello... Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are looking for. It is good that you have done some research into the BDSM lifestyle, and that

2009-07-17 Is it time for me to move on:

Hello... Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are looking for. Firstly, my Master does not require me to speak in the third person when addressing

2009-07-10 Burden to my Master:

Hello... Thank you for coming to me with your question. I do beg your pardon for my delay in answering it; my Master and I recently moved to a new house and were without internet access for a couple

 

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