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Master Shadow

U.S.

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Expertise

Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

Experience in the area

31 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

Organizations

Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder).

Publications

Alt Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

Education/Credentials

, Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

What do you like about this subject?

The diversity of different types of play, as well as the People in the lifestyle, which varies from blue collar workers to the elite of society.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

My wife and I intend on becoming the Midwests Premier Dominant couple in the Lifestyle.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

Lifestylers are NOT a dark and dangerous people. Quite the opposite, We are very careful in what We do, always siding with safety before all else. Those who come to Us do so willingly, knowing what they do. We do not seek out others to "turn" them, but in all ways have informed, consensual agreements with the subs or slaves We scene with.

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

The lifestyle is not about "Tie me down and sex me", nor is it just "Rack em and wack em", but encompasses so much more! Those who are interested in the lifestyle really should experience it first hand. To not do so does one a serious disservice. In my opinion, the bd/sm relationship goes much deeper than marriage in amny aspects.

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Recent Reviews from Users

User	Date	K	C	T	P	Comments
steve	08/10/09	10	10	10	10
Linnea	08/04/09	10	10	10	10
stranger	08/04/09	7	6	7	10
nate	08/03/09	10	9	10	10	Thank you
MizzB	08/03/09	10	10	10	10	I wanted to say thank you. Over .....

Recent Answers from Master Shadow

2009-10-16 girlfriend into dominatrix:

I'd say it's time for some serious conversation, to find out EXACTLY what each of Y/you like and want out of this relationship. Realize, you can't force Her to become your Dominant, you must CONVINCE

2009-09-28 contacts:

Alt may be commercial, but as far as their chat goes, I've not seen anything better, so it seems You may be stuck with it. Collarme's chat is too primitive, and hard to read, and Fetlife doesn't even have

2009-09-13 BDSM:

I would check online at such places as The Stockroom, or the like. There are many reputable dealers online now days, if You look for them. As for wax, I use paraffin candles. They burn at a low temperature

2009-08-02 Collar vs being owned:

That would depend on the individuals involved. To some, the collar, even though a nice visual reminder, is nothing more than just that. To them, their collar resides in their heart, where their gift of

2009-08-02 how can I tell?:

I would say it's time for some exploration of each other for a while. Try both ways, with you as Top, say, for a month, then try it the other way around. Explore! This is part of what BD/SM is about.

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