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Master Shadow

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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

Experience in the area

35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

Organizations

Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder). Co Owner of House of Dragon.

Publications

Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

Education/Credentials

Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

What do you like about this subject?

The diversity of different types of play, as well as the People in the lifestyle, which varies from blue collar workers to the elite of society.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

My wife and I believe in giving back to the Community that has given so much of itself to Us unselfeshly. To my good friend, Mistress Michelle Peters, thank You, for being a true friend.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

Lifestylers are NOT a dark and dangerous people. Quite the opposite, We are very careful in what We do, always siding with safety before all else. Those who come to Us do so willingly, knowing what they do. We do not seek out others to "turn" them, but in all ways have informed, consensual agreements with the subs or slaves We scene with.

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

The lifestyle is not about "Tie me down and sex me", nor is it just "Rack em and wack em", but encompasses so much more! Those who are interested in the lifestyle really should experience it first hand. To not do so does one a serious disservice. In my opinion, the bd/sm relationship goes much deeper than marriage in many aspects.

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Recent Answers from Master Shadow

2012-01-30 help:

I would start by gaining his trust. Long talks without judgement would seem in order. Find out as much as You can about him, his likes, wants, desires for the future, his hopes and dreams. If he has been

2012-01-28 how do I introduce my husband to D/s?:

First, please excuse the lateness of this answer. I have given this much thought over the past few days, as this is a tricky situation, and I wanted to give it proper thought. While your husband may

2011-01-26 Dom/Sub Website:

There are many. Dom/sub friends I think is still available. Fetlife is another. I would look on the internet under the heading of "BDSM" in your area for a site of your choice. My wife and I met on such

2011-01-13 i want my wife to cane me:

Bottom line is, if She doesn't want to, She won't. You could speak with Her again, explain yourself, and allow Her to speak as well, so you can find out why She doesn't want to. It could be that bdsm isn't

2011-01-13 Married Dom:

I hate to break this to you, cc, but most of these types of relationships do not work out. Usually it's because the so called "Dom" is not what they appear to be, and many are just looking for a little

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