BDSM/Expert Profile

Expertise

Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

Experience in the area

I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

Organizations

Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications

D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

Education/Credentials

I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors

I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

What do you like about this subject?

This is what I have lived for the last 18 years 24/7 and I am not with a Dom now. I live D/s. I have live in a Poly home and it just works. I want to keep leaning and growing, and helping others is just a part of who I am. I never wish to stop pushing my limits, as well to be pushed to become the best that I possibly can.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

I keep learning from others each and every day. I stay active and try to learn as much as I can from others and from doing the research to learn more. I enjoy the challenge of trying to find answers if I do not know them so that I can help others. Sometimes you may even get a delayed answer, because I can not always hunt down the information needed to answer your questions.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

That it can allow you to tap into a much deeper level within you and reach out and touch you in many different ways. D/s is not abuse and it should always be SSC...Safe Scene and Consensual

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

That it is big sticks and all about pain and hurting people. No everyone enjoys, likes or even wants pain.