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awhitecloud

U.S.

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Expertise

Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 15 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle.

Experience in the area

I have been active in the community for over 18 years. I have been helping people for the last 10 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications.

Organizations

Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications

D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal"

Education/Credentials

I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors

I have several for best article of the month

What do you like about this subject?

This is what I have lived for the last 11 years 24/7 and I am not with a Dom now and we live D/s. I live in a Poly home. I want to keep leaning and growing, and helping others is just a part of who I am.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

I keep learning from others each and every day. I stay active and try to learn as much as I can from others and from doing the research to learn more. I enjoy the challenge of trying to find answers if I do not know them so that I can help others.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

That it can allow you to tap into a much deeper level within you and reach out and touch you in many different ways. D/s is not abuse and it should always be SSC...Safe Scene and Consensual

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

That it is big sticks and all about pain and hurting people. No everyone enjoys, likes or even wants pain.

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Recent Reviews from Users

User	Date	K	C	T	P	Comments
Andrew	09/24/09	10	10	9	10	your answer helped alot
Andrew	09/24/09	10	10	9	10	your answer helped alot
Mitchell	09/24/09	9	10	10	9
kristin	08/17/09	10	10	10	10	i appreciate your response and am seriously .....
steve	08/07/09	10	10	10	10

Recent Answers from awhitecloud

2009-11-04 help !!!!!:

I would say to set up your rules, how and when you wish her to do things for you. Work with her on the proper way to be talked to so that you know and can work on making it happen that way. The more

2009-11-04 advice:

not sure what to tell you, and as to her calling you Master...well subs use that term as well. This is something you need to talk about before hand...and you can be on line studying up on what a good

2009-11-01 Unsure about a lot:

well I would go out with him and then deal with the issues directly. Giving it a try might be the only answer. Write out the fears and be open and honest with him as well about them. Yes it is not his

2009-10-24 dealing with a break-up:

I would say to stop pushing it give him the time that he needs...work on things together, and see what happens. In the end it might not work out and know this well you are working with him now. Wounds

2009-10-23 His or mine?:

yes you can have a contract that keeps your money as yours. And only a slave has that to worry about. As a submissive you have rights, and if a Dom says you do not...well it it time to walk and find

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