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awhitecloud

U.S.

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Expertise

Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 15 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle.

Experience in the area

I have been active in the community for over 18 years. I have been helping people for the last 10 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications.

Organizations

Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications

D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal"

Education/Credentials

I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors

I have several for best article of the month

What do you like about this subject?

This is what I have lived for the last 11 years 24/7 and I am not with a Dom now and we live D/s. I live in a Poly home. I want to keep leaning and growing, and helping others is just a part of who I am.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

I keep learning from others each and every day. I stay active and try to learn as much as I can from others and from doing the research to learn more. I enjoy the challenge of trying to find answers if I do not know them so that I can help others.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

That it can allow you to tap into a much deeper level within you and reach out and touch you in many different ways. D/s is not abuse and it should always be SSC...Safe Scene and Consensual

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

That it is big sticks and all about pain and hurting people. No everyone enjoys, likes or even wants pain.

Average Ratings

Recent Reviews from Users

User	Date	K	C	T	P	Comments
Andrew	09/24/09	10	10	9	10	your answer helped alot
Andrew	09/24/09	10	10	9	10	your answer helped alot
Mitchell	09/24/09	9	10	10	9
kristin	08/17/09	10	10	10	10	i appreciate your response and am seriously .....
steve	08/07/09	10	10	10	10

Recent Answers from awhitecloud

2009-11-18 Punishment rubrics/Appropriate punishments:

Sir, First off how is it getting tougher? I am not sure I understand what your needing? Is it that things are not changing so you have to find new things? Or maybe you are dealing with new issues and

2009-11-16 Confused submissive married to vanilla man:

have you told your husband? Does he know about the lifestyle? First you need to be honest with both men. Then you need to look at something else, it is possible to love two people. Is the Dom ever

2009-11-09 im trying to find a female submissive.:

you might wish to try theses www.collarme.com www.fetlife.com i wish you luck, I do not know more then theses I am not into a lot of on line sites, and I will never be on a pay site. Happy hunting

2009-11-07 Guilt:

okay, in my book he can always masturbate all on his own. I do not think it was right to make you give into something that you did not feel was right. He did not respect your feeling and was only thinking

2009-11-05 Top drop:

Sometimes life just gets to busy and the Dom caring so much on his plate just needs a brake from it all. You can help to keep yourself accountable, with logging in your chores, and making sure to just

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