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Expertise
I can answer questions related to the practice of BDSM, especially involving relationship issues and personal interactions. My expertise is in helping people sort out thoughts and feelings, define problems and find solutions. I'm happy to apply my BDSM knowledge and experience to this. I'm not the best person for questions dealing with mechanical contraptions, the physics of BDSM or Gor related matters.
Experience in the area
Seventeen years of real time, face to face practice of BDSM in my own personal relationships, 4 years of professional experience in distance training.
Education/Credentials
My traditional education includes both a bachelor's and master's degree. I have no formal education in BDSM. I know what I know from interacting with experienced players, reading, and hands on experience.
Average Ratings
Recent Reviews from Users
K = Knowledgeability C = Clarity of Response T = Timeliness P = Politeness| User | Date | K | C | T | P | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Jordan | 12/19/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you so much for your insight! ..... |
| angel | 11/24/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you, i have asked Sir if ..... |
| Brad | 10/27/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thanks so much for your help, Miss ..... |
| annabel | 10/26/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | A truely expectional response that fully answered ..... |
| Annie | 10/17/09 | 9 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you very much for your timely ..... |
Recent Answers from Mistress Violette
2010-02-04 We've been vanilla for 2 years, but I'm a sub:
Hello, Elle, Some folks in BDSM come to the practice of it later in life but it would be unusual for someone to suddenly develop the interest, especially if, as your boyfriend said, he'd never had any
2010-02-02 My wife is in an online Master / Slave relationship:
Just to be clear, I didn't mean to imply that she's confused. I said it would be unfair of you to be angry with her for doing something you said it was ok for her to do. You're definitely going to have
2010-02-01 My wife is in an online Master / Slave relationship:
Hello, Limbo_SA, Thank you for your question. You're in a somewhat delicate situation. I hope I can give you some ideas to assist you in making decisions. No one knows where the drive to be submissive
2009-12-19 Novice questions.:
Hello, Jordan. Thank you for clarifying your question. Since you said you didn't mind having it published I'm changing the status to public, because you're definitely not alone in your feelings or
2009-12-17 Unhealthy S&M?:
Hello, Mey, Thank you for understanding that folks at All Experts are sharing information and ideas only. What I can do is share with you some thoughts based on what I've observed, read and heard about
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