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Expertise
I can answer questions related to the practice of BDSM, especially involving relationship issues and personal interactions. My expertise is in helping people sort out thoughts and feelings, define problems and find solutions. I'm happy to apply my BDSM knowledge and experience to this. I'm not the best person for questions dealing with mechanical contraptions, the physics of BDSM or Gor related matters.
Experience in the area
Seventeen years of real time, face to face practice of BDSM in my own personal relationships, 4 years of professional experience in distance training.
Education/Credentials
My traditional education includes both a bachelor's and master's degree. I have no formal education in BDSM. I know what I know from interacting with experienced players, reading, and hands on experience.
Average Ratings
Recent Reviews from Users
K = Knowledgeability C = Clarity of Response P = Politeness| User | Date | K | C | P | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Rebbecca | 01/05/12 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thanks for offering your opinion and helping ..... |
| Steve | 09/08/10 | 9 | 10 | 10 | Thank you very much. We continue it ..... |
| Jordan | 12/19/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you so much for your insight! ..... |
| angel | 11/24/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you, i have asked Sir if ..... |
| Brad | 10/27/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thanks so much for your help, Miss ..... |
Recent Answers from Mistress Violette
2012-01-05 Settling into our roles:
Hello, Rebbecca, It sounds like you're right in your belief that others may have influenced you toward submission. When some people hear that a woman is interested in BDSM they automatically think she's
2011-09-13 info on bdsm and correct actions:
Hello, Caroline, I would say, as lady of the house, you must suggest that dirty dishes need to be put in the sink, damp towels hung back up and so on. Unless your husband is really into micro-management
2010-09-02 I'm not sure if I should be doing this.:
Hello, Steve, Even though you're only 18, you're wise. You're aware of your needs when it comes to BDSM, you're seeing some pitfalls in the type of relationship your girlfriend wants, and you're aware
2010-02-04 We've been vanilla for 2 years, but I'm a sub:
Hello, Elle, Some folks in BDSM come to the practice of it later in life but it would be unusual for someone to suddenly develop the interest, especially if, as your boyfriend said, he'd never had any
2010-02-02 My wife is in an online Master / Slave relationship:
Just to be clear, I didn't mean to imply that she's confused. I said it would be unfair of you to be angry with her for doing something you said it was ok for her to do. You're definitely going to have
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