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Expert Profile: Mistress Violette

Expertise:  I can answer questions related to the practice of BDSM, especially involving relationship issues and personal interactions. My expertise is in helping people sort out thoughts and feelings, define problems and find solutions. I'm happy to apply my BDSM knowledge and experience to this. I'm not the best person for questions dealing with mechanical contraptions, the physics of BDSM or Gor related matters.

Experience in the area
Seventeen years of real time, face to face practice of BDSM in my own personal relationships, 4 years of professional experience in distance training.

Education/Credentials
My traditional education includes both a bachelor's and master's degree. I have no formal education in BDSM. I know what I know from interacting with experienced players, reading, and hands on experience.

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Average Ratings
Prestige Points: 4550
Knowledge   9.94   Best of the best
Clarity of Response   9.91   Best of the best
Timeliness   10.0   Best of the best
Politeness   10.0   Best of the best
Number Of Questions
(in Past 24 Hours)
0
Max Questions to be Asked
(in 24 Hour period)
1
Total Questions
(since joining AllExperts)
254
Recent Reviews from Users
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User Comments
This was a wonderful suggestion and I dont know why I did not think of this myself. Mistress Violette was kind and responded quickly to my question. I
(whispers on 10/06/08)
Thank you for your response I am interested in play only at this time; however I guess since I have found that this "play" is well very exciting and h
(Kristin on 10/06/08)
Thank you so much!!! :)
(Gypsy on 10/01/08)
Thank you, Mistress Violette, for framing my situation as trailblazing rather than weird.
(Riv on 10/01/08)
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Recent Answers from Mistress Violette
2008-10-06  connecting with others. Hello, I think it's a good idea to connect with others who are involved in BDSM in the same way you are. It's helpful to be exposed to a variety of viewpoints and to learn from many others when possible...
2008-10-02  Submissive's ettiqute Hi, Kristin, I'm happy to help someone who wants to make an informed decision. Just please understand that this comes from my own perspective and experience. Others may have a different take. First...
2008-09-30  Gender neutral titles Hi, Riv, I wish I had a definitive answer for you. My personal preference for a gender neutral designation is "dominant." I've never been comfortable with "domme", "femdom", "domina" or "dominatrix...
2008-09-28  behavior Hello, As much as i dislike saying this, dominants aren't always thoughtful. Or observant. We think we're giving a sub what he or she needs but we're falling short because we just don't know we're wrong...
2008-09-25  slave in training Hello, Gypsy, I'm always happy to hear from someone who wants to take the initiative when it comes to learning about BDSM. There are so many facets that the wisest thing to do is explore extensively...
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