I can answer questions related to the practice of BDSM, especially involving relationship issues and personal interactions. My expertise is in helping people sort out thoughts and feelings, define problems and find solutions. I'm happy to apply my BDSM knowledge and experience to this. I'm not the best person for questions dealing with mechanical contraptions, the physics of BDSM or Gor related matters.
Seventeen years of real time, face to face practice of BDSM in my own personal relationships, 4 years of professional experience in distance training.
My traditional education includes both a bachelor's and master's degree. I have no formal education in BDSM. I know what I know from interacting with experienced players, reading, and hands on experience.
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This is kind of a no-brainer, Ben. What you're supposed to do is stop. You know that, but you think you can't. I'm going to tell why you can. The reason for the rabbit in the headlights feeling is because
Hi, Becca, Thank you for the nice compliment! Let me see if I can be of help to you. I'll cut to the chase on this answer: Yes, there are platonic BDSM relationships and they work very well. In fact
Hi, Ellie, It's not just you. I think the reason lots of people find certain terms confusing is because people are trying to label the wrong thing. Submission and dominance aren't a cluster of activities
Hi, Cherry, It sounds like your boyfriend likes to switch, that is, be dominant sometimes and be submissive sometimes. He wants you to do the same, and you're agreeable to that. I can give you some
Hello, Rebbecca, It sounds like you're right in your belief that others may have influenced you toward submission. When some people hear that a woman is interested in BDSM they automatically think she's
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