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Mistress Violette

U.S.
On Vacation
returns 01/31/2017
Expertise

I can answer questions related to the practice of BDSM, especially involving relationship issues and personal interactions. My expertise is in helping people sort out thoughts and feelings, define problems and find solutions. I'm happy to apply my BDSM knowledge and experience to this. I'm not the best person for questions dealing with mechanical contraptions, the physics of BDSM or Gor related matters.

Experience in the area

Seventeen years of real time, face to face practice of BDSM in my own personal relationships, 4 years of professional experience in distance training.

Education/Credentials

My traditional education includes both a bachelor's and master's degree. I have no formal education in BDSM. I know what I know from interacting with experienced players, reading, and hands on experience.

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Ben02/07/16101010Gave me the information I needed to .....
Becca01/31/16101010Thank you so much!!! I know my .....
Ellie01/23/16101010You helped so much I can't even .....
Cherrys01/17/16101010 
Jessica01/03/13101010Thank you soooo very much, Mistress Violette .....

Recent Answers from Mistress Violette

2016-02-24 Newby:

Hi, Caitlin,    This is a great question. Many people just jump in without much thought and quite a few end up confused or worse. You sound like you're willing to take some time to sort things out and

2016-02-04 Rabbit in the Headlights:

This is kind of a no-brainer, Ben. What you're supposed to do is stop. You know that, but you think you can't. I'm going to tell why you can.    The reason for the rabbit in the headlights feeling is because

2016-01-31 A platonic D/s relationship:

Hi, Becca,    Thank you for the nice compliment! Let me see if I can be of help to you.    I'll cut to the chase on this answer: Yes, there are platonic BDSM relationships and they work very well. In fact

2016-01-23 Need help determining what category I fall into.:

Hi, Ellie,    It's not just you. I think the reason lots of people find certain terms confusing is because people are trying to label the wrong thing. Submission and dominance aren't a cluster of activities

2016-01-17 Confused/ embarrassed - how to bdsm??:

Hi, Cherry,    It sounds like your boyfriend likes to switch, that is, be dominant sometimes and be submissive sometimes. He wants you to do the same, and you're agreeable to that. I can give you some

 

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