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BDSM/Expert Profile
Expertise
I can answer questions related to the practice of BDSM, especially involving relationship issues and personal interactions. My expertise is in helping people sort out thoughts and feelings, define problems and find solutions. I'm happy to apply my BDSM knowledge and experience to this. I'm not the best person for questions dealing with mechanical contraptions, the physics of BDSM or Gor related matters.
Experience in the area
Seventeen years of real time, face to face practice of BDSM in my own personal relationships, 4 years of professional experience in distance training.
Education/Credentials
My traditional education includes both a bachelor's and master's degree. I have no formal education in BDSM. I know what I know from interacting with experienced players, reading, and hands on experience.
Average Ratings
Recent Reviews from Users
K = Knowledgeability C = Clarity of Response T = Timeliness P = Politeness| User | Date | K | C | T | P | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Brad | 10/27/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thanks so much for your help, Miss ..... |
| annabel | 10/26/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | A truely expectional response that fully answered ..... |
| Annie | 10/17/09 | 9 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you very much for your timely ..... |
| sky | 10/02/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | thank you so much. |
| cherishedpet | 10/02/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank You so much, Mistress Violette. Your ..... |
Recent Answers from Mistress Violette
2009-10-26 Sub drop help !!!:
Hello, Annabel, This doesn't sound like sub drop to me. It seems more like the after effects of trauma. This man took advantage of you and your partner and abused you. It's effecting you more than it
2009-10-23 Over-reaction?:
Hello, Brad, You're not at all paranoid; this isn't what it's supposed to be like. The watchwords in BDSM are "safe, sane and consensual." It make sense to introduce BDSM to a newcomer gradually but
2009-10-13 New Master:
Hi, Tim, Rather than try to reinvent the wheel, I'm going to give you a web site that I think will be perfect for you. It has information, safety advice and much more, including the very kind of ideas
2009-10-11 poly: dealing with a pain in the butt "princess" while pregnant:
Hello, His_kitten, This is a difficult situation. Most of us have experienced at least its vanilla forms and it's frustrating. My sense is that 1's issues are actually with your dominant and the poly
2009-10-09 Aftercare and Subspace:
Hello, Annie, I know you feel hurt by your husband's response and, before we go any further, I want to give you some food for thought about that. That's all it is, since I don't have all the facts.
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