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Mistress Violette

U.S.
On Vacation
returns 12/31/2014
Expertise

I can answer questions related to the practice of BDSM, especially involving relationship issues and personal interactions. My expertise is in helping people sort out thoughts and feelings, define problems and find solutions. I'm happy to apply my BDSM knowledge and experience to this. I'm not the best person for questions dealing with mechanical contraptions, the physics of BDSM or Gor related matters.

Experience in the area

Seventeen years of real time, face to face practice of BDSM in my own personal relationships, 4 years of professional experience in distance training.

Education/Credentials

My traditional education includes both a bachelor's and master's degree. I have no formal education in BDSM. I know what I know from interacting with experienced players, reading, and hands on experience.

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UserDateKCPComments
Jessica01/03/13101010Thank you soooo very much, Mistress Violette .....
Rebbecca01/05/12101010Thanks for offering your opinion and helping .....
Steve09/08/101010Thank you very much. We continue it .....
Jordan12/19/09101010Thank you so much for your insight! .....
angel11/24/09101010Thank you, i have asked Sir if .....

Recent Answers from Mistress Violette

2012-01-05 Settling into our roles:

Hello, Rebbecca,    It sounds like you're right in your belief that others may have influenced you toward submission. When some people hear that a woman is interested in BDSM they automatically think she's

2011-09-13 info on bdsm and correct actions:

Hello, Caroline,    I would say, as lady of the house, you must suggest that dirty dishes need to be put in the sink, damp towels hung back up and so on. Unless your husband is really into micro-management

2010-09-02 I'm not sure if I should be doing this.:

Hello, Steve,    Even though you're only 18, you're wise. You're aware of your needs when it comes to BDSM, you're seeing some pitfalls in the type of relationship your girlfriend wants, and you're aware

2010-02-04 We've been vanilla for 2 years, but I'm a sub:

Hello, Elle,    Some folks in BDSM come to the practice of it later in life but it would be unusual for someone to suddenly develop the interest, especially if, as your boyfriend said, he'd never had any

2010-02-02 My wife is in an online Master / Slave relationship:

Just to be clear, I didn't mean to imply that she's confused. I said it would be unfair of you to be angry with her for doing something you said it was ok for her to do. You're definitely going to have

 

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