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I can answer the following questions about fetishism:

  • How to talk to your partner about your kinky fantasies
  • How to set up a "play date" for you and your partner so you can act out your fantasies.
  • How to practice your fantasies and fetishes solo.
  • The different organizations, clubs, or resources one want to contact
Crossdressers
  • How to approach your lover about your crossdressing fetish
  • How to play with your lover is s/he is a crossdresser
  • Different ways to can continue to make this fetish work for you
Other kinky specialities:
  • Animal Transformation
  • Foot Fetish
  • Role-Play
  • BDSM
  • Object fetish
"Unique" or "Uncommon" Fetishes:
  • Fantasies that involve supernatural creatures, celebrities, etc
  • Fantasies that may involve body growth, shrinkage, weight gain, etc.
  • Fantasies that include elaborate scenarios, scripted role-play, etc.
  • A combination of one or more fetishes
Edgeplay
  • Bloodplay
  • Watersports
  • Coprophilia/coprophagia
  • Roman Showers
  • Intense, consensual role-play with taboo or controversial themes (Rape-fantasy, animal-play, etc)

I can't answer the following:

In-depth information about medical play or bondage

If you need further guidance or coaching, then please call my phone line:

(646) 250-4999. Call for a free 10 minute phone consultation. I also offer hour-long coaching sessions for the practicing pervert.

Experience in the area

BIO

Christina Cicchelli is a "Sexventurer" of sorts; she's spent over five years as a sex worker and has experience in a myriad of industries, including phone sex and professional domination. As a Mistress, she has worked in several NYC Dungeons and also visited devoted clients on an independent basis. As a phone sex operator, she maintained a large amount of callers who sought her guidance, creativity, and experience in fetish and role-play.

Christina is best known for her career as a porn actress. Under the non de plume, Simone Valentino, she's performed in a handful of films. She received an AVN nomination for “Best Actress” for her role in Afrodite Superstar and also won “Best New Starlet” at the Feminist Porn Awards in 2008 for her role in Audacia Ray's The Bi Apple.

Christina is a columnist for $pread Magazine and writes about all things fetish in own blog, A Fantastic Nightmare. She is also Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross’s resident Fetish Blogger on their sex-positive website (Dodsonandross.com) and coaches individuals and couples who seeking kinky inspiration in the bedroom.

Publications

A Fantastic Nightmare (Personal Blog)

Dodsonandross.com - Sex positive website and home of sex educators and feminists Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross

$pread Magazine - Printed publication for sex workers written and produced by sex workers

Education/Credentials

Graduate: The College of New Rochelle

Masters: English/Communications

Awards and Honors

2007: "Best New Starlet" - Feminist Porn Awards 2008: "Best New Actress" - AVN Awards

Past/Present Clients

Confidential but verifiable references are available

What do you like about this subject?

As a professional dominatrix and fetish phone sex operator, I have listened to the fantasies of many clients. Healthy sexual practices that incorporate various levels of kinks and fetishes are exciting and fun for me. And I want to share this love of kink with someone who is curious or questioning their own sexual activity.

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Recent Answers from christina Cicchelli

2009-11-20 Age play:

Hey Brittany, What has been disturbing you? Are you disturbed that you have to tell your fiancee or that you have these kind of fantasies? Age-play is more popular than we otherwise choose to believe

2009-11-20 Fetish for Girls Buttocks:

Hey Danny, Many men (and women) enjoy watching, smelling, and touching the backsides of others. For some fetishists, they may worship the ass exclusively by touching or grabbing the buttocks. There

2009-11-15 Play wrestling with my hubbie:

Hello Lisa, From my own personal experience, I always ask my clients if they have any sort of chest or breathing problems. This way I know how long I should sit on them. I also sit high on my client's

2009-11-11 rape-play:

Hello Brooke, Sorry for the delayed response. Problems with the computer. Let me first just discuss your sexual activity with your boyfriend. Then, we can begin to talk about rape fantasies.

2009-11-09 underwear fetish:

Hey Adam, Let's start with the definition of a relationship. You say you are attracted to boys, but you feel like you can't have a relationship because of this, as well as the risk of sexual abuse

 

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