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Expertise
If your fetish involves gear I can take it on. From electrosex to medical play I'll give you the best shot I can. I deal with some of the strangest things on an everyday basis and would be glad to help answer any question you might have, no matter how crazy or mundane. *New* If you're under 18, I'm no longer answering your questions. I understand that most people lose their virginities before they're 18, and that getting good advice, or even treated seriously as a sexual being can be problematic, but I'm not comfortable that the 12 year olds or such who are asking questions are always really 12 year olds and not strange old men or FBI agents. So, for any underage kids thinking of asking questions, here's my response up front: Use condoms (you aren't ready to have sex if you can't buy condoms), and don't do anything you're uncomfortable with.
Experience in the area
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Education/Credentials
Just experience
Average Ratings
Recent Reviews from Users
K = Knowledgeability C = Clarity of Response T = Timeliness P = Politeness| User | Date | K | C | T | P | Comments |
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| Jana | 02/02/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you so much for responding to ..... |
| Mary | 01/19/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thanks for the help...and not only ..... |
| bruce | 12/31/08 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thanks XR, I do appreciate your time ..... |
| Jennifer | 12/30/08 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thanks for the reassurance. |
| Hailey | 11/06/08 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you so much for your answer ..... |
Recent Answers from XR
2009-01-18 exposing fettish to daughters:
Harmful, I don't know, very awkward, yes. As I see it, I feel that as fetishes tend to be sexual they should be kept from one's kids. If this were a lifestyle that he is living and everyone in the
2009-01-14 Agitated/ what he wants:
So, looking at your situation there's nothing terribly problematic. It does sound like what really needs to happen is more communication and compromise. It's really not unusual to have a little bit of
2008-12-31 insecure tendencies:
Possibly kind of creepy if you were still getting pet for hours while you were asleep. I think that the important thing is that you weren't in a healthy relationship and you got out of that unhealthy
2008-12-30 insecure tendencies:
I think that by focusing on the touching you're missing the bigger picture and the real important points. First off, it's clear that the woman you were with was clingy and insecure. She clearly needed
2008-12-30 Sneaker / Trainers Fetish:
Sorry about this, but I don't explain fetishes. There are plenty of theories one could pull up, but I'm sticking with "don't know, don't care, don't worry about it." It's a good question if you want to
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