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Expertise

I can answer questions about coming out as well as dealing with family members who are (and are not) supportive. I can also answer questions about gay marriage.

Experience in the area

I have worked closely with Mass Equality to fight for the right for people of all genders and lifestyles to get married.

Education/Credentials

BA- English-Sociology-Psychology I year - New England School of Law

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Donie10/19/0910101010I truly appreciated Gary's candor and insight! .....
Want to know10/17/09101010 
britteny10/02/0910101010thank you so much , i know you .....
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Recent Answers from Gary

2009-10-16 Relationship with "Straight" guy?:

Donie, I must say this is an interesting situation to say the least. You mention that your wife is fine with you liking men but is she also fine with you having a sexual relationship with one as well?

2009-10-15 boyfriend:

Mark, I'm sure you love him but do you really want to live the rest of your life with a cheat and a liar? Once a cheat, always a cheat. Once a liar, always a liar. I think this needs to be your

2009-10-14 Not sure what to do?:

Jody, You are not alone. There are many men out there in your same situation. If you come out to your family and friends you will not lose them and you will certainly not lose the love of your son

2009-10-09 open relation and cheating:

I believe honesty is the best policy. Explain to him what happened and let him know you feel terrible and made a mistake. He may be upset and mad but a relationship based on secrets and lies will never

2009-09-30 i am a women that really love a gay guy:

Britteny, If he is truly gay an intimate and long-lasting relationship (i.e. marriage) is never going to work. Eventually the feelings he tries to repress will come back to haunt him (and you). That

 

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