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I can answer questions about coming out as well as dealing with the death of a partner or spouse. I am very compassionate and caring and will often rely on my own life experiences of coming out and loss of a loved one to help others. Losing someone you love is never easy and being in a gay relationship can often add to that feeling of isolation and loneliness.

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I have worked closely with Mass Equality to fight for the right for people of all genders and lifestyles to get married. I have also participated in many LGBT Grief Support Groups.


Gay Men's Bereavement Group


BA- English-Sociology-Psychology I year - New England School of Law

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National Honor Award for Bereavement and Grief

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2016-06-15 Curious query re gay lifestyle:

Hi Edwin,     1) I don't really know but I sure do hope the number of gay and straight people that take drugs is low to none.     2) I think both are fine. Most gay people I think just refer to themselves

2016-06-14 why does this make me delusional?:

Hi Jeff,     I'm not sure I completely understand what happened but maybe the guy you sent the letter to (that went to his mother) wasn't the guy that was emailing you. If that were the case he may be

2016-03-11 Threesome:

Hi Tom,     I'm not a big advocate of bringing a third party into a relationship unless it is a very casual and non-committed one. My feeling is if you love the one your with that should feed your heart

2015-09-22 Confused:

Hi Mike,     After reading this my first instinct and thought was that maybe he just got nervous when it came down to finally going home with you.     That being said, it certainly seems as though he came

2015-06-26 Gay:

Dear Sufia,    I don't have much information to base my answer on but you can't "make" someone love you.     If this man is interested in you then you should talk to him openly and let him know you have


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