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I have often helped gays in their challenge to understand what it means to come out and how best to start down that road. I have and also helped gays to reconcile the often difficult struggle of being gay and being a Christian. I now understand one of God's truths more clearly: Our pain is not wasted when we can reach around and comfort another coming along behind us on the same path.

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I too had to deal with these issues when I finally accepted who I was and started down my own path to come out. It is difficult to imagine now how much I have changed and how much I have learned as I traveled this most curious journey. For many years, I have hosted a website to address this issue and to help others.

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http://home.roadrunner.com/~jimswanson/

Education/Credentials

Graduate form University of Hartford

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Pride Award

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Recent Answers from Jim Swanson

2011-01-04 Missing Out On Sex:

Hey Nick,    Your e-mail sounds like one I could have written when I was finally deciding I really was gay and also that I had better get on with life before it passed me by. Yes, its true that the sexual

2010-12-26 Straight guy admitting I'm gay:

Hi Cole, my straight-gay friend,    I have to tell you that I did chuckle a bit when I read the subject of your question. I think a better subject line might be... "A gay admitting he is gay".    You are

2010-12-07 coming out:

Eric,    Well, you pose a good question.  Coming out is a very personal thing and it is different for all of us to know who and when. However, some things we all share, and one of those things is fear

2010-11-29 Gay not sure:

Kim,    Having been close friends for a while, does she know you?  Does she know you are gay? Its not always an easy subject to bring up especially with someone that has know you for a while and you have

2010-11-28 Gay not sure:

Kim,    One thing you didn't mention is weather you know you are gay. I am assuming that you have come to understand that you are and you are looking for others to date.  One thing you should know, is

 

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