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Blue Sleighty


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BLUE SLEIGHTY HAS BEEN AN EXPERT FOR OVER 5 YEARS! I will do my best to answer any legitimate question. If I can NOT answer it- I will be happy to provide references to someone that I believe can help you.

Experience in the area

I have been a lesbian all of my life, and realized that there was something different going on with me by the time I was 6 years old. I have faced the same issues and have made many of the same mistakes that other lesbians have. Part of my journey as a woman and a lesbian has included educating myself, and exploring my sexuality and my body. I have had a wealth of experiences and while marching down my path seeking a better understanding of myself and others, I have gathered information along the way from studying publications of the best sex experts of our time, like Susie Bright, Annie Sprinkle (who is a lesbian, now!), Xaviera Hollander (who is doing some great work on YouTube these days!), and many others. I have been fortunate to benefit from the wisdom, experience and research of these brilliant and brave women as well as my own. I have had an active and adventurous sex life and I am a healthy and happy woman. I am published and a widely known writer of lesbian erotica.


MySecretObsession.com, AuthorsDen.com, AuthorZone.com, CafeBoudoir.com, many others. Author of 25 short stories, and 3 novellas which can be found at Amazon.com, and Lulu.com , as well as many other on line book sellers. You can also find me on Facebook and Twitter.


Along with the privledge of having an oddly interesting and far from boring life which has afforded me a rather unique perspective, I have an AA from the Texas Academy of Art. I am a midwife and worked with a team of midwives at a birthing center where I performed well woman exams, managed prenatal care, and delivered babies as well as managing home births for 3 years, which gives me plenty of hands on experience with the female body. I have the equivalent of a MA in life experiences and personal independent study as measured by UH life credit testing, and I constantly read college psychology textbooks, Psychology/Psychiatry News in the AMAJ, Psychology Today, and other educational journals. I write professionally and am respected and loved in the genre of lesbian erotica. I am a lesbian mother of a now adult, well-adjusted, degreed, happily married for 5 years, heterosexual daughter. I'm 40.

Awards and Honors

Every time someone thanks me for helping them is an award and an honor for me. Also, I was just thanked by the author, 'the mysterious Jade', in the acknowledgements of her new, page turning lesbian erotic thriller, "Secretly Bound", for being her mentor and for inspiration, advice and friendship. I have business associations with some of the best artists and writers of our time.

What do you like about this subject?

We all need an ear to hear us, a shoulder to lean on, and a person to TRUST and say ANYTHING to without fearing judgement, to help us work through issues when coming 'of age'. I want to be that person for other women - no matter the issue. It gives me great satisfaction to help other women. AllExperts.com affords me the opportunity.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

I hope that I can help women understand themselves better, feel good about themselves and find happiness. I seek answers to share with all seekers.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

I get a lot of questions from young women who think that they might be gay because they were sexually aroused by lesbian pornography and someone told them that if they are 'turned on' by other women- that they are either bisexual, or lesbian. THIS IS NOT TRUE.

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

Being a lesbian is a lot more than just a sexual act between two women. It is a mindset and s lifestyle.

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Bree11/26/13101010Thank you Blue. Your support and encouragement .....
julie10/17/13101010Excellent service! I will definitely come back .....
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Recent Answers from Blue Sleighty

2013-11-23 Feeling alone:

Bree,    The potential for being hurt in a relationship is not one sided. You are just as much at risk of being hurt as the person you are involved with is. Taking time to know a person can reduce the

2013-11-20 Feeling alone:

Bree,    I understand. I heard every word. And I truly wish I had a better answer.    But I can't lie to you.    Things will not be this way forever.    To be honest with you- I NEVER came out to my mother

2013-11-19 Feeling alone:

Hey, Bree. It's nice to hear from you again. I'm sorry you are feeling so alone.     The girl at your school sounds like a real possibility. You just have to straight  up tell her like you just told me

2013-07-24 Help:

Brittney,    I will find some references for you on this subject and follow up with them. Normally I would simply answer the question, but unfortunately I have someone writing to me and masquerading as

2013-07-20 Hi:

Nico,    I can see why you would not like my statement about MOMS doing the best that they can at the time. You were left to the wolves by your mother and that is really hard to forgive. She had her spoon


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