BLUE SLEIGHTY HAS BEEN AN EXPERT FOR OVER 5 YEARS! I will do my best to answer any legitimate question. If I can NOT answer it- I will be happy to provide references to someone that I believe can help you.
I have been a lesbian all of my life, and realized that there was something different going on with me by the time I was 6 years old. I have faced the same issues and have made many of the same mistakes that other lesbians have. Part of my journey as a woman and a lesbian has included educating myself, and exploring my sexuality and my body. I have had a wealth of experiences and while marching down my path seeking a better understanding of myself and others, I have gathered information along the way from studying publications of the best sex experts of our time, like Susie Bright, Annie Sprinkle (who is a lesbian, now!), Xaviera Hollander (who is doing some great work on YouTube these days!), and many others. I have been fortunate to benefit from the wisdom, experience and research of these brilliant and brave women as well as my own. I have had an active and adventurous sex life and I am a healthy and happy woman. I am published and a widely known writer of lesbian erotica.
MySecretObsession.com, AuthorsDen.com, AuthorZone.com, CafeBoudoir.com, many others. Author of 25 short stories, and 3 novellas which can be found at Amazon.com, and Lulu.com , as well as many other on line book sellers. You can also find me on Facebook and Twitter.
Along with the privledge of having an oddly interesting and far from boring life which has afforded me a rather unique perspective, I have an AA from the Texas Academy of Art. I am a midwife and worked with a team of midwives at a birthing center where I performed well woman exams, managed prenatal care, and delivered babies as well as managing home births for 3 years, which gives me plenty of hands on experience with the female body. I have the equivalent of a MA in life experiences and personal independent study as measured by UH life credit testing, and I constantly read college psychology textbooks, Psychology/Psychiatry News in the AMAJ, Psychology Today, and other educational journals. I write professionally and am respected and loved in the genre of lesbian erotica. I am a lesbian mother of a now adult, well-adjusted, degreed, happily married for 5 years, heterosexual daughter. I'm 40.
Every time someone thanks me for helping them is an award and an honor for me. Also, I was just thanked by the author, 'the mysterious Jade', in the acknowledgements of her new, page turning lesbian erotic thriller, "Secretly Bound", for being her mentor and for inspiration, advice and friendship. I have business associations with some of the best artists and writers of our time.
We all need an ear to hear us, a shoulder to lean on, and a person to TRUST and say ANYTHING to without fearing judgement, to help us work through issues when coming 'of age'. I want to be that person for other women - no matter the issue. It gives me great satisfaction to help other women. AllExperts.com affords me the opportunity.
I hope that I can help women understand themselves better, feel good about themselves and find happiness. I seek answers to share with all seekers.
I get a lot of questions from young women who think that they might be gay because they were sexually aroused by lesbian pornography and someone told them that if they are 'turned on' by other women- that they are either bisexual, or lesbian. THIS IS NOT TRUE.
Being a lesbian is a lot more than just a sexual act between two women. It is a mindset and s lifestyle.
|Anissa||04/24/13||10||10||10||Blue, you were a tremendous help. Just .....|
|Sache||04/14/13||10||10||10||Its the best thing ever|
|Kendra||04/09/13||10||10||10||Thank you so much Blue. I'll keep .....|
|Emily||03/28/13||10||10||10||Thank you Blue. And no, I'm not .....|
Sache, I need clarification, please. You are still seeing the girl that you first wrote me about, correct? You and the girl you wrote me about agreed not to correspond with your ex girlfriends?
Sache, I think you should continue to be with her! I never meant to imply that you should not be with your girlfriend and I am sorry if that is how I came across. Your relationship might grow
Kendra, I am so very happy to hear that!!! I'm glad it has all worked out. Of course you are more than welcome and I am very happy I could help with some suggestions. Write any tome you feel like
Dear Kendra, Even though the teenager is your girlfriend's sister, you have both assumed the roll of parent. Once you are parents everything changes and your relationship will need to be redesigned
Dear Kendra, No need to apologize! Venting is good! I need to know a few things. Do the the of you ever go out alone? Do you still engage in the activities that you enjoyed in your first years