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BLUE SLEIGHTY HAS BEEN AN EXPERT FOR OVER 2 YEARS! I will do my best to answer any legitimate question. If I can NOT answer it- I will be happy to provide references to someone that I believe can help you.
I have been a lesbian all of my life, and realized that there was something different going on with me by the time I was 6 years old. I have faced the same issues and have made many of the same mistakes that other lesbians have. Part of my journey as a woman and a lesbian has included educating myself, and exploring my sexuality and my body. While marching down my path seeking a better understanding of myself and others, I have gathered information along the way from reading publications of the best sex experts of our time, like Susie Bright, Annie Sprinkle (who is a lesbian, now!), Xaviera Hollander (who is doing some great work on YouTube these days!), and many others. I have been fortunate to benefit from the wisdom, experience and research of these brilliant and brave women. I have had an active and adventurous sex life and I am a healthy and happy woman. I am published and a widely known writer of lesbian erotica.
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Along with the privledge of having an oddly interesting and far from boring life which has afforded me a rather unique perspective, I have an AA from the Texas Academy of Art. I am a midwife and worked with a team of midwives at a birthing center where I performed well woman exams, managed prenatal care, and delivered babies as well as managing home births for 3 years, which gives me plenty of hands on experience with the female body. I have the equivalent of a MA in life experiences and personal independent study as measured by UH life credit testing, and I constantly read college psychology textbooks, Psychology/Psychiatry News in the AMAJ, Psychology Today, and other educational journals. I write professionally and am respected and loved in the genre of lesbian erotica. I'm 40.
Every time someone thanks me for helping them is an award and an honor for me. Also, I was just thanked by the author, 'the mysterious Jade', in the acknowledgements of her new, page turning lesbian erotic thriller, "Secretly Bound", for being her mentor and for inspiration, advice and friendship.
We all need an ear to hear us, a shoulder to lean on, and a person to TRUST and say ANYTHING to without fearing judgement, to help us work through issues when coming 'of age'. I want to be that person for other women - no matter the issue. It gives me great satisfaction to help other women. AllExperts.com affords me the opportunity.
I hope that I can help women understand themselves better, feel good about themselves and find happiness. I seek answers to share with all seekers.
I get a lot of questions from young women who think that they might be gay because they were sexually aroused by lesbian pornography and someone told them that if they are 'turned on' by other women- that they are either bisexual, or lesbian. THIS IS NOT TRUE.
Being a lesbian is a lot more than just a sexual act between two women. It is a mindset and s lifestyle.
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Dear Alison, I am sorry that you have suffered through traumatic events. These events are always difficult to get through. From what you are telling me, I can't agree that you have an aversion to
Addy, I am very sorry that you and your girlfriend are having difficulties. I am not sure if you want to discuss this, or if you would like a suggestion for a solution. So- I am going to give you a
Alison, Unfortunately, many of us put into practice some of the things we have seen in adult movies that we probably should have ignored. A little attention to the navel is nice, but it is not really
Agnes, I know it is hard, and I can strongly feel and hear your frustration. It seems unfair and one-sided. It is tough on your partner too. Just in different ways. I wish I had better news. I wish
I have a lovely - and hetero - daughter. As far as the stupid questions- knowing me I had some very smart-assed answers for them, but I can't remember any in particular. Thank goodness! Heteros can

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