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I CAN answer (and any that are similar): why do my parents hate me? Why can't my parents accept me? Is it wrong being gay? Will my parents ever accept me? Why do I feel so alone and alienated? Is being gay a sin? How can/do I come out? When do I come out? I CAN NOT answer: why am I gay?
I am gay and have come out. I have been depressed and suicidal in the past, but I am much better now. I have helped friends who are gay.
Outdoor Odyssey (a mentoring program for special needs children), SLC (Students for Life Choices)
In high school, so I can relate to most teens.
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Your mother is in a different generation- one that is more strict and conservative than understanding and liberal. You can't make her accept you and the only reason she doesn't is because those are the
Ugh, been there, done that! And it sucks. Haha, well, Kyle, it seems to me that if you've asked him multiple times and he continues to say no, then there's not much more advice I can give you. Maybe he
Unfortunately, Morgan, since I don't know your personal and home life from a first person perspective, I can't really answer this. However, I can give you the advice that you need to do it when you are
Talking always works wonders. So talk to her. Tell her its not that your not ready, but your really not ready either. See if she's willing to keep things discrete. I'm sure she'll understand that you need
The biggest mistake any gay/les/bi teen makes is thinking they HAVE to tell their parents and their friends. I say, your business is your own. As for how, that also has to deal with how your parents and
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