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| Emma | 02/13/12 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you so much for your help ..... |
| kate | 02/07/12 | 8 | 10 | 9 | |
| Sharman | 02/02/11 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thanks for your answer. I don't know ..... |
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Kate, You are right that you can't change him, but you can change yourself. You are viewing this situation from a skewed perspective. You said yourself that your FEEL like things are based on a lie. If
Jennifer, Marriage is about making life easier for the other person. He is not doing that. It seems there is some selfishness on his end that you and he are simply seeing as not paying attention. I tend
Marie, You continued having kids with this man even when he was doing all these things you dislike. So now you want to leave and bring disruption into your childrens lives? I don't think that is in the
Helena, You can only be in charge of yourself. So I would suggest you focus on doing loving things even when you don't feel like it. I imagine that he didn't feel connected with so had to connect to someone
Sharman, I suggest you let your husband know that you married him to be with him not his ADULT son and him. Therefore if things don't change you will be moving out in 4 weeks. This isn't a threat it's
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