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Expert Profile: Debbie Preece

Expertise:  Feeling like a frustrated parent? Learn how to get first-time obedience,cheerfully and happily from children 4-14. Designed for the easy use of Mom and the children keep it going. This Christian author has sold more than 4,000 copies of her remarkable system to thousands of battle-weary parents who are trying desperately to raise children that contribute to a happy family, better society and love of God. She has spoken to standing room only audiences that laugh and cry with her as she shares her insightful discovery of a unique parenting tool that she declares is a gift from God. http://parenting101.home.att.net/

Experience in the area
One desperate night after a very trying day, while raising three children four years apart, Debbie found herself in "Shock" with the behavior of her children and frustrated with her parenting skills. Her home had become a Combat Zone and she was the prisoner! The "Golden Rule" wasn't working. It seemed the more she did for her children, the more selfish and demanding they became. Teaching internal values like integrity and honesty; as well as, happy mommy and family values, such as, children responding the first time happily and cheerfully were a ‘mission impossible’. The consistency factor on the parenting side was booby trapped by the troops all day long. That night, after holding up her flag of surrender, she sent an emergency S.O.S. to her commander in chief and a new battle plan was developed that virtually guaranteed her survival and that of her family. What resulted in 1983 was “The Happy Face Token System.” Her sigh of relief (AHH!) could be heard in the form of happy children responding with; "What can I do for you Mommy? May I set the table? You’re the BEST MOMMY IN THE WHOLE WORLD!" She had gained control of her family and a truce had been accepted with this most remarkable interactive parenting tool. Consistency was a built-in feature of this now “Kid Tested & Mother Approved” INTERACTIVE experience. .

Publications
From Combat Zone to Love at Home (book)
http://floridabestmom.com http://happyfacetokens.home.att.net

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What do you like about this subject?  FROM COMBAT ZONE TO LOVE AT HOME has been recommended and used by family psychologist, Patricia Taylor of Houston, TX for blended families, children with ADD and ADHD. It is also recommended for those who Home School and offers an adaptation of “The Happy Face Token System” to be used at home, with the “Good Work Bucks” for Home School.
Average Ratings
Prestige Points: 890
Knowledge   9.40   Excellent
Clarity of Response   9.72   Best of the best
Timeliness   9.92   Best of the best
Politeness   9.96   Best of the best
Number Of Questions
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0
Max Questions to be Asked
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5
Total Questions
(since joining AllExperts)
184
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User Comments
Hi Debbie, excellent responce I fwd to the friends and wife and already the wife has broken the communication barrier though she is a little defensive
(Darin on 08/20/08)
Thank you for the time that you took to talk to me.
(april on 08/11/08)
Thanks for the advice. I am going to try the happy token system. We've tried other reward system ideas, but this one sounds different than what we'v
(Emily on 08/01/08)
Thank you. I do think you have a point about showing her more praise for the good things she does, instead of always pointing out the bad. For some
(Christina on 08/09/08)
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Recent Answers from Debbie Preece
2008-08-27  7 year daughter Hi Emma, I'm sorry your daughter is having a hard time right now. It sounds like she is experiencing separation anxiety. Sometimes it is as simple as spending more time with her reading or going to...
2008-08-15  Misbehaving 9yr old at school Hi Robert, I understand your frustration. You are right to feel that the teacher did address the ADD problelm incorrectly. Unfortunatly, tagging can happen. One very effective way to address that issue...
2008-08-15  too much affection Hi Jason, I don't think there can be too much positive affection. Your child might act like it bugs them but my rule was a hug and a kiss leaving, coming, any time. I do believe this helps all focus...
2008-08-12  Misbehaving 9yr old at school Hi Robert, I am assuming you have made sure that he isn't being bullied or abused while at school. I am also assuming that you have had his vision and hearing tested. What about the possibility of dyslexic...
2008-08-11  dependency disorder Hi April, Independence issues show up at all different ages, but usually by 10 the child should do the things you describe by himself. It may be he uses these things as a crutch to draw attention....
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