I will answer questions on the subject of Polyamory, including Polyfidelity and other variations.
I "came out" as poly in 1997, though I've felt my poly side strongly for a couple decades longer than that.
I am the founder of PAARC, the Polyamory Awareness & Acceptance Ribbon Campaign. I have also belonged to two local poly organizations.
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For me, polyamory is the only "natural" type of loving relationship paradigm. I honestly don't understand how people can "turn off" the ability to love others when they're in a relationship. Polyamory is about freedom... not sexual freedom, but emotional freedom.
I hope to see the day when poly relationships are not as stigmatized as they currently are.
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Ayla, it depends on the particular arrangement. If, for example, Michael was involved with both women, but the women were not involved intimately with each other, the common term for that would be a "V"
Hi, again, Leslie. I again have to stress that what follows is only my opinion based on what you've said, as well as my own hunches and biases. But I see two big problems in what you just described
It certainly sounds like your husband isn't handling the NRE well, either. One of the most important things new poly folk tend not to realize is that when you add a secondary to your relationship, you
Hi, Leslie. I want to begin by saying I'm sorry that you're going through this. For a "hard-wired monogamous" person, a partner's polyamorous inclinations can be crazy hard to understand, let alone
This is certainly a rough situation. From your description, it sounds like your husband might be realizing his worst fear. My suspicion is that he agreed to you dating other men because he felt like